-- Salient characteristics --

Male
41 years old
5'8", 155#, average build
Beard, full head of hair, graying White collar IT engineering job Own a house, car, no debt, etc
420 and psilocybin friendly

-- About Me (Vanilla) --

Just a typical nerd with a dark twist. My hobbies include video games, board/card games, TV/movies, and motorcycles. Not particularly heavy with tattoos yet but I'm on the books for a full sleeve starting in April. I'm pretty introverted, but not shy, I just really enjoy quieter times with people I enjoy being around. People I don't have to put on a mask for, essentially. I'm moderately attractive, don't struggle for dates but I don't get the kinds of dates I need to find satisfaction in them.

There's a lot I could put here, but I'd prefer to leave that to conversation, so feel free to ask if you have questions.

-- About Me (Kink) --

This is why I'm posting here instead of using online dating. Kink plays such an important part in my sexual health that I am unable to carry on a relationship without it. More specifically, I'm particularly into the rough sex, free use, controlling aspects of sexual kink. I also enjoy some aspects of sadism, especially impact play. On the other side, I love aftercare in the form of cuddling, snacking, general affirmations that my partner and I are both still valuable human beings.

-- Preferences --

Age range is 18-40-- I often find it difficult to relate to the younger crowd so more realistically starting in the mid-late 20s, but I won't discount anyone based strictly on that. Body types are anything from very petite to curvy, but I am not attracted to larger/BBW body types. Nothing against them, just doesn't do it for me.

I'd prefer someone I can share experiences with, so if you enjoy weed, shrooms, gaming, home body type stuff, that automatically puts you top of the pile as prospective partners goes.

While obviously such a connection would be online at first, I do expect it would move to IRL should we establish a strong compatibility.

-- Contact --

Chat or message me here if interested. I will expect to exchange pictures relatively quickly, so if that's a hard limit for you I can save you some time and say I won't be interested.