Hi, everyone,

I hope you are doing well. I've been lurking here for a bit, but this is my first time posting. I'm not good at this, but I'll give it my best try. And sorry in advance if it's all over the place.

I'll start by saying what I'm looking for, as this will be a long post.

I'm looking for a genuine monogamous relationship (I'm open to a FLR) that will hopefully end in marriage with the kink being part of it. I don't want a kink dispenser or someone just for NSFW. For me this kink is about intimacy, and I can't get that without chemistry, connection and hopefully love being part of it. I want us to get to know each other before involving any form of NSFW.

I want an equal relationship, where mutual love and respect is integral to it. I want the sandwich with the sauce.

The sandwich : I want a woman who can just hold me and make me forget that the world existed. I want an equal relationship where responsibilities are shared, I want someone who I can share my deepest vulnerabilities and secrets with, and can trust them to safeguard it, and they in turn will trust me to do the same. I want someone who is my safe harbour, and I'm theirs in turn. I want someone to start a family with.

The sauce : I'm not experienced with this. But I know what I want. And read alot about it. I'm not comfortable sharing my kinks publicly, but I would share my deal breakers to avoid wasting anyone's time.

Deal breakers:

• Watersports, Scat, blood, sissification, feminization, cuckolding, humiliation, exhibitionism, masks, Findom, anything illegal.

Some would need more nuance than just yes or no.

-pain, dressing

About you :

I'm looking for a gentle dom, someone I can surrender to, and in turn feel empowered. I would prefer if you have some experience in this, but I would also love it if we could explore it together. I'm mostly drawn to the intimate and sensual aspect of this.

Physically, I don't have that many requirements, I believe compatibility is more important. All I ask is that you take care of yourself and be within my age range and 25 . I would prefer someone older. Though it's not a hard requirement. I don't care about race/ethnicity/religion, I like to take people as they come, and I believe that how you treat others can tell more about a person than some label. Don't really care about politics, as I'm apolitical, I would prefer the same in this regard.

I'm fine with this starting online, As long it will be in person eventually. And if you aren't in the UAE, I don't care about distance, as I believe if 2 people wanted to, something could be figured out. I would like us to be in constant communication, and although work keeps me busy, I can make time, and I'm hoping you can too.

I realise what I've written so far has been about my wants. And I believe that a relationship, especially one like this is a two way street. I will be making your happiness and comfort my priority, I'll be someone you can be your most vulnerable with, and fulfill your needs to the best of my ability.

About me :

I'm 29, from Egypt, Single, No children, currently settled in the UAE. I'm a muslim, moderately practicing i would say. Though religion doesn't play a large part in my life. I'm an engineer and work in the manufacturing industry. I don't do drugs or drink. I have been trying to quit smoking though. I have somewhat of a coffee addiction though.

I'm single with no children.

For how I look, I'm about 175 cm or 5 '7, dark hair and eyes tanned skin, slim, usually shaved bald, and have small trimmed beard. Though I have been praised about my eyelashes a lot, so there is that, and i wear glasses.

I'm an introvert, somewhat closed off until I get used to people and start to open up and somewhat on the shy side, I tend to avoid Conflict (not that it means I'm a doormat), and am usually a quiet person by nature. I love going on long walks as it's very relaxing to me, but I tend to avoid crowded places. I have dealt with depression before if it's a deal breaker. But I'm also kind, emphatic, protective and reliable. In general I would prefer a cozy night in.

For my hobbies, I love gaming mostly single player games, RPGs especially BG3, Black Myth, Dragon age, and anything from “Fromsoft”, don't really play online, but if it's something you are into, it could be a great bonding activity.

I love listening to music, I have a broad range there but Metal is my favourite with my favorite band being Apocalyptica. Others i like are Myriads, Iron Maiden, Nightwish, Bruno Mars, Breaking Benjamin, Flyleaf, Myrath.

I used to watch a lot of anime, But manga is my preferred method these days, that's how I keep up with one piece nowadays.

I also like reading, mainly fantasy books, and some fanfiction as well.

I love watching horror movies, eastern ones have a special place in my heart.

Table tennis is another thing I really like, and I did boxing a while back.

I'm also open to other activities if it's something we can enjoy together. I usually need someone to give me a gentle push out of comfort zone.

I don't think a post like this can encompass who I am as a person, but I hope I at least managed to give an idea about who I am.

Thank you for reaching this far, and if any of this manages to interest you, feel free to dm me. And maybe drop your favourite color ?.

PS : I'm not interested in sharing any NSFW pictures, until we get to know each other very well first. I'm, however, ready to verify immediately.