Hey everyone out there,
Lets start with the basics first. I am a 36 year old guy from Belgium, more specific from the East of Antwerp so native Dutch speaking. As for my living I am a self-employed who guides construction companies in there digital transition, and helps them with some key positions on projects.
Aside my work I like to go for a nice walk or run, I play volleyball on a recreational level. I also like to cook some nice dishes and to experiment in the kitchen with new dishes. Most fun is when you are able to cook for some friends, or for a partner when you have one (but all single now). I also work in a bar some evenings a week.
I am an engineer and always been interested in science, so quiet some time in the evening might go to reading articles and fall down the rabbithole from that point as I start a whole search to get to the bottom of it.
When I am not at home or with friends, I like to go to some musea and discover new parts of the world.
As of kinks, I am a dom and am more on the softer side of the spectrum. Although I can be strict and cruel/teasing from time to time, but not a huge fan of the more extreme things. Would love to elaborate more on this in private.
My main kinks include control (orgasm, playtime, clothing, ...). I also like some nice tease and torture, light bondage (not experienced enough for advanced bondage), semi-public and some mind fucking.
For me this is not just a short term thing. I want this to be something longterm as, in my opinion, you can't built a proper dynamic, and enjoy it both the fully, if you don't know eachother properly. Therefor it is also very important to have some daily contact. I know life can come inbetween, and we don't have time every day, but just a goodmorning and/or goodevening didn't hurt anybody yet. For me this is crucial as I need a bond with someone before I can hop in such a dynamic, and that bond need to be maintained of course.
As of experience I have quiet some experience with online play with subs I found here or on other sites, and have had a bit of real life experience.
Me being from Belgium, i would like to find someone from the same, or a close timezone. But this is no hard limit, which means, if you feel you could fit, you can always try your shot.
As last note, and as for the elephant in the room, pictures. They aren't a must for me as long as you are able to give detailled reports or feedback during playtime or after a task (my mind will create a proper picture from those things).
I like a sub to be able to hold a conversation, some level of maturity, adventurous and curious to try new things.
I wanna start of online, but am open to meet at some point whenever we both feel comfortable about it.
How to apply: Send me a PM that includes at least the following things: who youo are (age, location, ...), do you lilve alone, your most favorite task so far, your least favorite task so far, anything specific else I shuld know from the start.
I hope to hear from you and would love to chat some more.
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