I guess let's start with the basics:

Hi, I'm Dave A 37 year old military man who is usually a dominate figure at work and for the most part outside of it as well. However, recently I have been more longing to be a sub or switch in a relationship. I would like to shut my brain off for a little bit and just follow the commands to make my partner happy. I'm looking for a soft dom who can flex being a dominate by asserting themselves over me and showing why they should control me.

I guess the first part to all of this is trust and communication. I would like to converse to figure out who you are as a person and to develop a connection that feels real and effortless.Bonus points if we share the same hobbies, shows or games. Im looking to develop a connection where trust can grow and both of us can just be ourselves—honest, open, and vulnerable. Now what about kinks? I enjoy the following:

• Orgasm control/edging (I’m not into denial, but hey, if you can make me beg, I’ll respect it)
• Bondage (You might have to tie me up to make me do certain things)
• Toys (I have cuffs, anal toys and a blowjob machine you are free to have me use)
• Praise(I enjoy being called a good boy)
• Free use -Anal play -Body whorship -Feet whorship
• Pegging

As for hard nos:

• Anything illegal
• Age play
• Bathroom control
• Anything permanent
• Body shaming
• kids,
• animals,
• blood,
• extreme violence A little about me:

I love music of all kinds,gaming and doing anything outdoors; hiking, biking, fishing, shooting, etc. I’m not super social but I definitely can be when required, I more so appreciate my alone time to recharge. I’m 6'1”, short brown hair and brown eyes and my current body type is athletic because I have to work out and I can verify.

So if I sound like someone you would like to dominate or switch control with please send a DM.