You may have started thinking about spanking for years, or it might have been just a few days. However it started, perhaps feel a deep-seated need for accountability and real consequences – a disciplinary experience, led by a strong and firm man, to correct poor habits and subpar behavior. Perhaps you want, or need, embarrassment or an attitude adjustment. Or perhaps your spanking needs focus on the therapeutic, maintenance, cathartic, or erotic aspects, rather than disciplinary ones.

If any of these ideas – or some combination – deeply resonates with you, please reach out. In the past, my spankees have varied widely, and I enjoy conversation. It doesn't matter if you're a graduate student, someone in tech, business, the professions, nonprofits, art, or in some other field entirely. If you are intrigued and are a woman ages 20-40, let’s see if we vibe.

I'm absolutely committed to consent. Your comfort level, and what I’ll do, would be discussed ahead of time. My usual approach is traditional: a barebottom spanking, with my hand, mostly over the knee (OTK). But everyone is different. We can discuss the details of a session and aftercare together. You have the option to explore non-spanking punishments (line writing, mouth soaping, corner time) as well, but that's purely optional. Above all else I will respect your limits and safeword.

I am 33 years old, an educated professional, very firm and dominant, but also respectful, kind, and sane. I’m only in the San Francisco Bay Area this week, staying at an upscale hotel close to the Financial District. I have plenty of implements at my disposal, although I don’t necessarily need to use them.  Both your privacy and mine would be protected, and discretion assured.

If this appeals to you and you're in the Bay Area, tell me why you need or deserve a spanking this week, as well as any other info you’d like to kick off our discussion. I prefer Reddit chats instead of DMs.