I love to be in control of your pleasure and give you the most amazing experiences I can. Nothing turns me on more, or is more satisfying, than taking you on an incredible sexual journey focused solely on you. I especially love giving oral, but anything that enhances your pleasure is wonderful.

My approach to pleasing you includes truly understanding what turns you on and what you respond to. I love to talk about your experiences and learn as much as I can about your preferences before we meet, then I try to learn more each time we’re together. As I’m pleasing you, I’m very focused on your responses to even subtle changes in my technique so I can zero in on exactly what works for you.

While every woman is different, I have a great understanding of women’s sexuality and sexual anatomy. I’m patient and let things take their course rather than trying to rush you to orgasm. There’s no pressure to cum or any expectations for you to perform for my gratification.

I start slow and gentle. I love to start with kissing, touching, and attention to your breasts, before going down on you. Not only does this allow you to get aroused before the main event, but it gets me incredibly turned on as well. Orally, I usually start with light, slow, long, gentle licks. There’s no rush as we spend some time warming you up. As things progress, I know how to find the G, A, and C spots and understand that the clitoris is more than just what’s under the hood.

I love spending a couple of hours driving you crazy.

About me: I love being a top and in control of your pleasure, but I don’t really consider myself a Dom. I truly prefer to give pleasure more than receive it. I find the fact that women can experience hours of intense pleasure to be breathtaking and humbling, and I love to act in service of that. Witnessing and being a part of your sexual experience is more gratifying than having my own orgasms. In fact, going a few days without cuming lets me connect more fully, deeply, and intensely with your pleasure. I’m not into chastity, it’s just a way for me to maximize my own sexuality and my connection to yours.

Dynamics-wise, I can be a little dominant or a little submissive depending on my partner — but generally not extreme in either direction.

I try to stay in shape and I’m told I’m attractive. I’m 5’8, white, have a full head of long hair, and clean shaven. I smell good, have great hygiene, and can host in my clean, comfortable home in Berkeley (or come to you).

Finding a FWB into something like this seems to be fairly easy — I’d like to find more than that, where we can spend time enjoying each other’s company out of the bedroom too. I’m polyamorous, with over 30 years of positive ENM experience.

I’m most attracted to women who have a few extra pounds, are average, or a little skinny. I prefer someone 40 and up. Race isn’t important.