Good afternoon from Canada, EST!

I'm hoping you are well and thanks for checking out my post! 

I'm seeking a bottom or switch to get to know for possible long term connections, friends first, no expectations as I like to go with the flow and have things develop naturally. Not looking for only roleplaying either, unless it's in dungeons and dragons. ;)

I like someone who likes to be silly, can enjoy my puns/dad jokes, some geeky interests like gaming, ttrpgs, comics, anime and the like. Enjoys getting daily texts yet understands life gets busy and may not be able to text all day. Someone who can communicate if they have questions, issues or problems come up. Perhaps someone who is neurodivergent like I am or at least understands how us neurospicy people work. :) You don't need irl bdsm experience yet bonus if you do. Would love to get to know you more, understand where you come from and who you are as a person before getting into the pervy/flirty side of things unless the chemistry is there from the get go.

As for myself, I'm 6'3, dadbod with muscles, beard, glasses, shoulder lenght dark hair with some salt n pepper that's usually tied up, couple of tats and a thick shaft.

I'm into gaming, ttrpgs like d&d, anime, nature walks, perler bead art, a catdad of one, reading scifi/fantasy novels, making terrible jokes from dad jokes, puns, wordplay and dark humour, I also enjoy watching youtube gaming, trivia, documentaries, animal and food vids.

I've been into the bdsm scene irl for 13 years yet been mostly away since the pandemic as introvert me likes staying inside. When I top I like to be a caretaker type, who likes to be a playful, silly with a slice of mean to even things out. Your safety and trust is #1 so I will often check in to make sure things are good. Especially during aftercare. I own a variety of kink toys and gear that I do my best to understand how to use as a top and how it's received as a bottom for safety and effectiveness.

Kinks include yet not all required are age gaps, humiliation, degradation, objectification, bdsm, ddlg, cumplay, creampies, cnc, bodily fluids (spit, cum, piss), outfits, collars, pet play, orgasm control, biting, spanking, floggers, canes and rope. If you have any that aren't listed, just ask me if I'm into it or not. Limits are blood, non-consent, and animals.