38 (M4F) ##online #Indiana Looking for a sub or friends.

First off a little disclaimer. I am married and have kids. Yes my wife knows. The reason for my search is that my wife is not in to bdsm as much as I am. We both have Dom personality's, so doing kink is difficult. I do not have much interest in being a sub. I have lots of interest in bdsm and my wife dose not share the same as me. Now I am satisfied in my sex life, however I want to take part in bdsm. I am looking to explore kink and make friends to talk to about kink. I hope this don't run you off.

So a little about me.

I am 6'2" and about 245lb. I know I a big. I am trying to loss weight and so is my wife. Just need more motivation. I work a lot and try to spend time with family. I love watching movies, old TV, old cartoons once and a while, anime, playing games, Xbox, board games (dungeons and dragons) and camping. I also, enjoy reading and listening to audio books. I don't have a lot of experience in kink. Most comes from what I read and seen. That's how I know I am not much into being a sub.

What I am looking for. In a sub. I am looking for any female or tf ( I am open just need to talk first) of any body type I think all women are sexy. Ages 25-50. I like personality and connection. I am looking to explore my kinks with some open to my relationship status. Out side of kink I hope to be able to talk to you about anything and to be able to talk to me about anything. Maybe play games or talk while I am exercising. Starting out it would be online messaging, texting, phone calls if you want, Pic sharing only if you want. Eventually if things work out maybe meet up in IRL. I am hoping to make a real connection.

In friends same as sub, however any female or tf. I just want someone to talk and learn more about the kink with.

Kink I am interested in light bdsm (can go harder once I come out of my shell), Shibari, orgasm control, denial, light life control, and ect. I have lots of interest and willing to try everything once. Hard no to scat, blood, harm, and under age.

After we talk a little bit, and want to continue to talk and explore kink together, or we can just be friends who talk about kink. Telling each other about our fantasies. Just let me know.