Hello, everyone!
I'm freshly 27 and still 100% believe that the world is beautiful and an incredible place to exist in. I'm largely spiritual; mostly pagan, but with a background of Christianity during my childhood.
I spend most of my free time, however awkwardly my work schedule allows, hiking around in the woods with my dog or stuffing my face into books.
I mostly read educational books at the moment; things and titiles that urge me to grow in my critical thinking skills, my level of introspection, and my dedication to myself and my own needs.
I've got a reading list longer than most wills and I'm never sure I'll stop finding topics to learn about; learning is a major motivator for me and I have listened to more tedtalks and podcasts about random things than I care to admit too.
I have a love for trivia and useless facts, but absolutely adore deep discussions. The more someone makes me think, the happier I am. There is nothing in this world better than quality time spent together discussing topics with no "real" answers.
I've got a job/career I enjoy. I turned my passion into my job and sometimes I regret it, but it's one of those things that's hindsight. I get to do what I love everyday and what I love is both my nerdy obbession and something I think actively helps the world be better.
Kink wise, I am a submissive. I've been in the world and community of kink since I was pretty young. I had a fantastic "upbringing" with a beloved mentor who still gives me shit to this day. I'm loud, opinionated, sarcastic, and affectionate to those who get to know me and my brand of submission. I like intelligent conversation and I'm prone to debating people about the 'whys' of the rules they give me. "I told you so" is a valid answer, but it's only an answer when you've got a foundation of trust and support built up behind it. I don't think I'm a brat, I enjoy rules and structure way too much to fight against them without just cause or reason. Instead, I think I'm an independent, intelligent, and emotional woman who simply enjoys being held by the will and authority of another person. There is something deeply and incredibly satisfying about the level of trust and intimacy involved with the act of submission and the reinforcement I get of my role from my partner.
I enjoy the intimacy that is created within those exchanges and am seeking something long term. I do have an interest in 24/7 and/or TPE dynamic, but it not something I'm willing to blindly leap into. It takes time to trust someone with those things. I have a deep love for impact play and bondage, as well as service work. I am incredibly oral focused and can find it very relaxing to have my mouth used in several ways. But those are things for a deeper conversation.
If you're interested, please feel free to DM or send a chat. I ask that those who respond be aware that I am not looking for something strictly online as I am incredibly touch oriented. IRL meetings and ability would be important to me. I am also not interested in cuckolding, cheating, or any relationship that requires absolute discretion.
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