Hi, I'm new to all of this, kinda scared. I called my mom to pick me up but she's not driving back until morning. So l guess while I'm here...

I've been told I'm extremely dominant in my lifetime. l apparently rub people the wrong way with my brash and prickly personality as a strong and independent woman. I'm very educated, I work a full time white collar corporate job. I am very financially independent. Homeowner, (x3). Doing extremely well for myself.

But I always feel something is off and missing in my life. Challenge. I like a challenge. I like when I get told no, I like when I don't get my way or what I want. Because I challenge back. I have a brat inside me somewhere, I dare you to tell me no. I would love for someone to show me, that I can stop being this strong and independent woman and challenge me. Make me want to submit and give my mind, body and soul to someone that would make me feel comfort in giving myself to them. Oh, and I'm 6'0" in freedom units. I am not skinny, but not fat. I have nice curves and know my angles. Long brown hair, (to my butt) and green eyes.

What I seek in a dom physically; I prefer someone taller and skinnier than me. Someone that is White, Native American, Hispanic, or Asian. You must be better off than me. l.e, make more than me and have your shit together. I can't sub to someone who's got less going for themselves than me. These are non negotiable.

I do not like; Degradation or pain for the sake of pain. If you're the kind of dom that leads with that, do not bother me please. I want control, not pain and being told I'm worthless. Praise me when I do good. Punish me when I don't. No blood, no waste. No ddlg, and I’m not a little.

If you feel like you'd like to try, and help me explore this side of myself, I hope you message me. I challenge whoever thinks they can be enough to make me want to submit to you. You’re not entitled to anything of me until that’s earned. But once it’s earned, I hope I can make you proud of me and you can give me comfort to be how we both want to be with each other.

Also please be willing to exchange photos, WITH YOUR FACE. I’m tired of people messaging me trying to remain faceless/thinking their body shots matter to me more than an actual connection.