Hello there, I'm 27 years old from New Delhi, India. I've spent a fair amount of time on Reddit, and explored this place a fair bit. I've met some interesting people from here, had some interesting conversations and experiences. It's all made me realise that I'm seeking something rather specific.

To make things clear these are the things I'm NOT looking for; a one night stand, anything with no strings attached, or anything casual for that matter.

I'm seeking a submissive who's on the same page as, seeking the same things that I am, and has similar morals and values, in what she'd be looking for. I wouldn't want to jump straight into a dynamic with anyone, more of exploring things, getting to know each other, and see if we fit, ideally like two pieces of a jigsaw puzzle. I'm seeking a dynamic which is monogamous, and between two emotionally aware and intelligent individuals.

About me; I'm 27 years old, from the Delhi NCR region. I've a fair amount of experience in this lifestyle, with almost all my past relationships having some underlying d/s dynamics. I've also had d/s dynamics, and I'm continuously evolving and learning. I'm 5'11, fair skinned, brown eyes and short messy hair which seem to have a life of their own. I've broad shoulders and more of a bottom heavy person with well built legs, and thighs. I'd say I'm easy on the eyes, and I pride on taking care of myself.

Kink me: I lay towards the dominant side of the spectrum. My kinks include, but are not limited to all things anal, verbal humiliation and degradation, talking dirty, body writing, orgasm denial, spit play, cum play, giving tasks, spanking and slapping, impact play (to a degree). I've a lot more kinks but it'd be better to tell you my hard limits; scat, blood, needles, excessive violence, animals and anything in this vein.

As a dominant, I'd say I'm more of a soft dom with inclinations of sadism when the mood is right. I relish taking responsibility for my submissive, be it emotional, mental or sexual. We're all independent people trying to make it in this world, but I'd like to be the shoulder to lean on, for my sub. I like to 'use' my partner for a lack of a better term, and I seek someone who derives pleasure from being 'used'. I'm a sucker for intelligence, and there's nothing sexier than witty banter, interespersed with flirting and intelligent conversations. I'm a self professed cunning linguist, and I seek someone similar. I'm also an emotional man, who values a deep intimate connection over anything else. I think I'm the kinkiest man you'll ever meet, my sexual imagination would probably impress you, but this side of me only comes out for someone if there's a foundation of emotional depth. I also have a psychological interest in BDSM, so I'd love to have a conversation about why you're into what you're into, what got you to these realisations. Basically peer into the tapestry that is your life, inspect the fabric and come close to the truth. Your truth. I know who I am, and what I seek, and ideally you should as I well.

Non kink; I'm a voracious reader, and I also write when the inspiration strikes. I also play an instrument, having done so since my school days. I like listening to music and my pallette in music is wide ranging. From Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan to Jimi Hendrix. From John Mayer to Seedhe Maut, I listen to it all. I also like to cook, trying out new dishes every week or so, as well as going out to new places to eat. Food, kink and music are a big part of my life. I generally have a rather hectic schedule, but with the right person, I'm sure we'll be able to figure everything out.

You: 23 and above, ideally from the same city. Someone who likes taking care of themselves and take pride in their appearance. Someone who has experience in BDSM, and yearns to be a submissive to the right man. To be owned, possessed, cherished, use and abused, all in the same breath. If you've nice eyes, and a nice ass, I think it'd be a cherry on top of this decadent cake.

"Her secret desire is to be ravished, lovingly forced open in unbearable pleasure, and taken fully open to love by a man of deep spiritual wisdom, strength, humor, sensitivity and integrity." — David Deida. "Love and Fear"

I think I've said whatever I want to say, if this post has resonated with you, or piqued your curiosity, I'll hear from you soon.