Figured I will try this again. I am a 35 year old Dom from the UK and looking for a submissive to explore kink with. Ideally I'm looking for a long term thing rather than a just use me to get off and then disappear. Id like to build a bit of a connection and talk about the boring and mundane day to day stuff as well as kink and the nsfw side so if you're looking for a quick one time orgasm I'm not your guy.

A bit about me, I'm 5ft 10, stocky dad bod type build. I work out regularly (calisthenics strength type work) so i'm pretty muscular and athletic, but I do enjoy the odd whiskey and pizza while snuggling up with my submissive on the sofa after a play session. In terms of hobbies I like all sorts, MMA, shooting (targets not live things), cooking up awesome food, drawing/sketching, pc / console gaming, programming, board games and probably more that I cant think of right now. I tend to try all sorts of hobbies out.

NSFW side kinks including orgasm control/denial, routine control, TPE (although I wouldn't expect that right off the bat until we build some mutual trust), forced orgasms, shibari, restraints, public play, voyeurism, exhibitionism, group play, impact play, breath control, brat taming, giving tasks, praise, humiliation, degradation. Limits are only really scat, watersports, blood play, and underage. The more control I have the better basically, but I would like to build up to that over time as we get more comfortable with each other. I have a firm hand which I don't mind using when necessary or if you misbehave, I like dishing out punishments but I lean more toward praise and positive reinforcement.

What im looking for, someone to just chat shit with and get to know, but with whom I can turn on the kink when the mood strikes us. Age range I dont really care as long as youre over 18 and mature enough to have a conversation regarding different bdsm aspects we should be good. Also, I want to own you, you will become my play pet, I want to pick out your outfits, own your orgasms and your pleasure, decide your new nails or hair style. In turn will look after and ensure all your needs are met. I want to look after you and snuggle you up and make you all mine, but also to enjoy being bent over and spanked and punished when you've misbehaved.