Hey there! Im from the east coast and considering I am here its easy to say kink is important to me. It doesnt matter if its soft or hard kinks just the fact it is there is what makes it work for me. I can easily swap between them to fit your needs. I do not say that lightly. I have had plenty of people whether its hard shit or light shit tell me how I am just an incredible dom. And while those dynamics/relationships were great they ended for one reason or another and thats totally fine shit happens.

I will say in a dynamic/relationship I am very much a caregiver/nurturer and overall a pleasure dom. I want to make sure you have what you need, I want to make sure youre taken care of whether its water, making sure you eat, or listening about your day and being there for your struggles, or even making sure every sexual experience leaves you with a grin on your face and your brain shut off. It ultimately depends on your needs, but at the end of the day I want to be there for them and fix them and help them and make you feel better. honestly, it tweaks me out if I cant help lol. even if its just small to the point I make you forget about what youre dealing with for a bit through spending time with one another and making you giggle lol

I will say my main big kink is definitely teasing. I love teasing my partner throughout the day and everything for a big payoff in the end. whether its touches that make you anticipate more or shuts your brain down for a moment, whispers, voice messages at inappropriate times. I love it all. Just knowing you cannot wait until we are alone to get what you need and what youve been craving for hours upon hours. I genuinely cannot get enough of it. Like yesss be feral for me lmao.

Honestly, kink in general puts that overwhelming possessiveness/protectiveness in full gear, because you belong to me (obviously I belong to you too). Knowing I could give you a command and knowing youd listen. Whether we are at a store and you get too far away and I just snap my fingers or click my tongue knowing youre going to come right back into my reach. Its cute in the best ways possible.

maybe I am super old school, but I dont want to get into kink super heavy at the start. I want to enjoy who you are and actually like you (wild right?). If I don't know you how am I supposed to trust you? and likewise how are you supposed to trust me? trust I will listen to safewords, or not push your limits. And honestly that ties into communication. Just talk to me, you have an issue whether its us or life? talk to me. Im not going to flip out on you. I understand trauma with that sort of thing can be hard, but thats what the trust is for, figuring shit out is a piece of cake as long as we are willing to talk through things.

That seems like enough kink talk on to actually me lol.

To me a relationship and dynamic are damn near the same thing. I would want my sub to end up becoming my girlfriend/partner. Because explain to me how I can be crazy about you enough to help fulfill your sexual needs WITHOUT wanting to date you, thats just wild lmao.

I am NOT poly or enm, definitely not my vibe and I am not looking for anything like that

I am also big on fitness and getting into shape, and have been for almost 9 months now. Im down an insane amount, so I would really appreciate if my partner was someone who would go on runs with me or live a healthy lifestyle with me. Or at least be interested in it. I want us to be the couple that makes every other one jealous (:

After I hit my weight goal, My plan is to get a motorcycle (Ninja 650 to start) so be my backpack? haha So right now if everything keeps going properly, I should be buying it in march just to give you perspective of how close I am to being done.

Now even though I am big on fitness, I still very much like to veg out and just play video games or watching shows. I play stuff on PC so if you do too that will be a huge huge huge plus. Definitely big on fps games, from tac shooters, to hero shooters, with a touch of moba shooters (aka deadlock lol). As for shows, I am working through suits/house and apothecary diaries. I would love to be able to sit in a call with you and either play things or watch things with you. its honestly such a vibe.

Another thing is, I cant have kids, so hopefully that isnt a deal breaker for you (breeding kink anyone?)

Cooking is definitely another thing I love to the point I almost went to culinary school and went into it full time. Let me cook for you sometime yeah?

The top end of my age range is definitely 35 albeit I have met some great people outside of that. So if youre interested, shoot me a chat tell me about yourself. Let me learn you, and lets hopefully build something.