You’re not the type to tell anyone this, but you’ve always wanted more. You’ve imagined a world where the walls you keep so carefully built finally come down—where someone truly sees you, in all your complexity.

What if I told you that your secret dreams could be brought to life? That there’s someone who can push you, tease you, guide you, and make you feel everything you’ve ever wanted, all while holding you close and keeping you safe?

I’m 39, confident, and experienced in the world you’ve been too shy to step into. Based in the Netherlands, I know what it means to claim and shape someone—to bring them out of their shell, one blush, one daring step at a time. I don’t deal in clichés or empty promises. What I offer is a space for you to explore yourself, unfiltered and fully seen.

Who You Are:

• Curious, maybe a little hesitant, but secretly craving more.
• Slim or athletic, someone who wants to feel desired and uniquely chosen.
• Living in or near the Netherlands (or close enough to make time zones work).

What I Offer:

• A safe, thrilling space to explore your submission and discover how far you’re willing to go.
• The chance to feel cherished and guided, while knowing you’re also the focus of my darkest desires.
• The freedom to embrace sides of yourself you’ve never shown the world—whether that’s surrendering fully, being adored, or even blushing at the edge of your comfort zone.

Maybe you’ve wondered about being teased, maybe even a little humiliated in ways that excite rather than hurt. If that’s a secret you’ve kept, know that it’s one I’ll understand.

But this isn’t just about pleasure—it’s about transformation. You’ll become the version of yourself you’ve always dreamed of: confident in surrender, glowing in submission, and completely mine.

I’m in a committed relationship, so I’m not looking for a girlfriend. This is about a dynamic—a pure, unapologetic exchange where you’ll be both my muse and my plaything.

If you’re still reading, then you’re intrigued. Good. That’s the first step. Message me with “Obsidian” and share what excites you most about taking the leap.