They say repeating the same action but expecting different results is the definition of insanity. So, you’ve been warned, I’m likely insane.

I’ve tried all sorts of different dynamics (CG/bg, DD/lg, D/s, M/s) and I feel like I need to try belonging to a Soft Dom. The kind of Dom that worries more about me than I do. The protective, caring, kind, thoughtful, emotionally intelligent type.

About me: 39F mom of 2. Married but open (and polyamorous). Blonde hair, gray/blue/green eyes, body type is “used to be athletic but the Mom effect is there”

I work full time so weekdays I’m pretty quiet, most communication would be early morning, lunch hour, evenings and weekends. My interests are: sports/fitness, psychology, investing and low brow humour.

I don’t trust easily (for pretty good reason I think) and I don’t submit easily. I need to trust you, believe you have my best interests in mind, feel important to you, and feel the desire to submit to Dominance. Until that time I just want to chat, flirt, and get to know you.

I’m not an easy submissive. I consider my submissive self to be a good girl/pleaser, but before you get there I’m sarcastic and independent and I’ll poke you a bit to gauge your reaction. If you hurt me or make me feel insecure, I will push you away so hard you’ll probably feel the sting for days, unless you are very good at damage control. If I feel you are incapable, I’ll top you until I lose respect and attraction. That being said, if we fit, I will worship at your feet. I have a lot of love to give (no strings attached) and I’m looking for that person who is worthy of my adoration.

I’m really looking for someone who is highly emotionally intelligent, calm and soothing, kind, looking for more than just spice.

About you: ~ prefer aged 40-55 ~ looks aren’t really important. I’m attracted to your brain. But if they are to you, I’m somewhere slightly above average I think. ~lean left politically ~experienced being a Soft Dom ~patient ~available most evenings to chat ~LGBTQ friendly ~pro-choice

I’m not looking to move platforms right away, that takes a few days of sifting through messages usually. Please be patient if you send a message. I try to reply to them all (that put in any effort) and it can be time consuming dwindling down to you :)

I look forward to meeting you. Cheers.