Hey!

This is a bit of a read so I hope you are comfortable! The TL;DR of it is — Whether you are curious about BDSM, dynamics, Dominance and have a million questions OR just need to vent to a fellow kinky stranger 1-1, please feel free to send me a message / chat request!

IF you do want to message me but find yourself constantly rewriting and editing and feeling silly or inexperienced, send me a ☘️ emoji and I’ll know you want to talk and I’ll try to get the ball rolling. Just know you are more than welcome and there is no time limit to this post. It won’t self destruct after you read it!

Hello! I’m an ancient 37 year old Primal Dominant from Australia. I’ve been exploring Dominance and kink for the past 10 years (Has it been that long? Bloody hell.) now. When I started, I lost, ashamed by my darker fantasies and not knowing what to do or who to talk to about my regular fantasies.

Now that I’m older, more knowledgable, every so often I like to leave these messages floating here just in case it reaches the minds of someone that’s curious about kink or wanting to explore their submission or dominance and they don’t know where to begin.

So: If you’re just beginning and feeling overwhelmed, if you’re struggling with working through an issue, if you’re just curious and want to understand, please don’t self-edit a message to me. Don’t delete. Don’t hesitate. Your feelings and fantasies are valid! There’s no judgement here, do not shy away on account of being inexperienced. We all start somewhere and I’ll be here to chat if and when you are wanting to.

Outside of Australia is fine! Man or woman is fine. Come as you are with your pad full of questions, I’m more than happy to chat!

But who are you talking to?

As a Dom, I consider myself a primal, which is just a way of being intimate - getting back to nature and an animal state of mind: all growling and running together naked and licking and biting and being free to express that side of my love language. I ADORE nature and storms and being naked out in the rain. I like collaring a submissive and adorning them with a leash and exploring each other’s minds and fantasies. That’s beautiful to me. I find freedom and beauty in that.

But then I’m into kinks like CNC ( Consensual Non Consent), Pet Play, forced orgasms and orgasm denials. Little rituals that fulfil my heart and the heart of a partner - watching tv with a collared submissive, observing her stretching, kneeling. So on.

OUTSIDE OF KINK, I’m introverted. Bit of a quiet homebody. You’ll find me most in my element at home with a good book, pot in the storm playing The Song of Storms. I like my books and my gaming and my movies and reading and writing. Some of my stories are under my profile if you want to read.

I’m fond of pugs, Mexican food, coffee, heavy metal and watching storms unravel around me. Tell me a ghost story, I love those. Folk stories and old weird history fascinates me. My ideal world is a farm full of animals — not too isolated from the city: I need my city comforts. But cats, dogs, ducks - a cosy cabin or shack. That’s my perfect realm.

Annnnd I’m going to stop this novel here. If you’re still with me, thank you for reading and please don’t hesitate to reach out! Either in a message or chat. Chat notifications can be wonky sometimes.