Experienced Dom looking for my forever Sub.

Hi I am new to this side of Reddit but not to the BDSM community. I am a 37 year old man looking for my someone who wants to build a long term relationship.

I am a full Dom. Here are my kinks in no particular order : Free use, spitting, light to hard degradation and humiliation, ass play for both of us (no pegging), CNC, gagging, role playing, forced and controlled orgasms. More can be discussed and will be discussed in a negotiation process where limits and boundaries are set.

I am not looking to jump straight into the dynamic until I’ve gotten to know you and honesty and respect are established. I am full time working man with a busy life so my time is valuable and I don’t want it wasted. Not looking to play games. I want someone who wants to build something with romance and be best friends and go on adventures. We should both have goals and want the same things but doesn’t have to completely align. Sorry but children is a no for me.

I’m 5”9 and about 200 lbs. I have black hair with a beard but I recently stated shaving my head. I have three tattoos but want more. I’m a competitive athlete so I take my diet and health seriously and am in the gym 4 days a week. I don’t drink or do hard drugs but enjoy the occasional vape or edible to relax.

Outside the gym I’m a huge cinephile and fantasy nerd. I cook and like to keep my life very easy going and simple. I also like to camp and go for hikes and long walks. I read write and yes I take my mental health seriously and do therapy regularly. I’m not shy about hiding my emotions and would like to communicate with my partner and have her communicate also.

If you want to establish a connection and build the dynamic please dm me. Pics would be appreciated and will be exchanged also. Don’t have to be NSFW.