Growth mindset, EQ, health and personal development are top of the list for me. You’ll find me to be a good communicator and able to read your subtly shifting emotional states to serve you better. This is my first priority as a sub and I am very good at this in person.

I’m single, unpartnered, not married and I don’t have any kids. I live in west LA and travel frequently to east coast and SF Bay.

I have worked in executive management in tech for 20 years. Im successful, masculine presenting, confident, well dressed, well spoken and clean cut.

I’m a fitness and diet geek so I’m in great shape, lean, athletic and muscular with lots of greens and superfoods in the diet. I’m 6’0 175, white. Pics here https://imgur.com/a/iafTQ3a - I’m happy to provide full face pics as soon as I hear from you directly (just don’t want to post them out on the unprotected internets)

On the vanilla side I love scuba diving, skateboarding, history and anything growth mindset. I’ve travelled all over the world many times, Europe particularly. I like cinema and watch a lot of older late 90s movies and sci fi epics. Reading: David Brooks/ how to see a person and watching: Dune 2 and Disclaimer (domme vibes in both of these :). I’m a casual star wars fan and I have a dog that I can regularly be found rolling around on the floor with.

I’ve had many successful vanilla relationships but after a few years of dating dommes I’ve really come to prefer it. I have a huge amount of responsibility in my vanilla life, and I crave the female gaze, leadership and dominance. I like this in and out of the bedroom.

My ideal match: local to LA, 28-40, fit / healthy habits. Has a spicy edge. Leads the conversations, tells me what she expects and how I should do it, has done therapy / spiritual work high EQ. Can read my energy and shape it to her desires. She has an intensity about her, I love strong eye contact and can hold it with her. Subtly dominant from the start, I can feel this just in vanilla communication and it is really attractive to me.

As for kinks, I will wait for you to ask and I promise I will not fetishize you. I am sexually experienced and confident in my abilities. I know how to read your body and emotions to serve you, and I truly love doing it; definitely a pleaser this way. Not into feminization, cucking or humiliation, other than that I am open minded and adventurous sexually so try me. I want to be respectfully dominated and dedicated to serving you.

I know I like this type of partner and won’t disappear on you. I will meet quickly, communicate clearly and show up when I say I will.

Happy to verify however you like, but if we chat expect me to want to meet in person sooner than later.

That’s it! Chat is open - I’m not rigid with my asks so even if you live somewhere else or aren’t exactly what I’m looking for, better to chat and see than never see what I’m like. I travel a lot and you never know when I could be in your city.

I do my best to put good vibes out there and hope you do the same. Let’s try to make this an inviting, affirming place. Thanks for stopping by 🙌