Hey everyone! I'm 25M, live in southern Oregon, and am looking for a kinky partner. I'm no stranger to the space and have had a few kinky relationships, but just haven't found my exact match yet. I've had a couple compelling conversations but ultimately missed connections specifically from r/bdsmpersonals recently, so was interested in putting myself out here again.

Who am I?

Like I said, I'm 25M, straight, with a stable career in tech and a house that I own. I can travel to you or travel you to me basically anywhere - I'm very mobile in general. I'll share pics with someone I connect with but I'm 5'10", skinny/fit, with a pretty decent face (I like to think, and so I'm told). I'm decently attractive by modern standards - I'm honestly a pretty normal dude. I live by the ocean and enjoy a wide range of hobbies like skiing; I love the outdoors, my garden, my technology, and writing as a creative pursuit. I can be somewhat high strung but this is mostly because I'm so generally chronically undersexed; I fly all over the country on the regular for my work, so things keep me busy. Generally I have an incredibly high sex drive, love to be adventurous during sex, and I also really appreciate how fun more vanilla things can be (kink isn't something I need all the time, but it is something I need in anything long term), and just in general want a relationship with someone who also finds physical intimacy to be a main shared interest of the relationship, as opposed to kind of a nice bonus. I like to hold hands or have you on my arm in public, I like to cuddle and catch a Studio Ghibli, I like little scalp massages, I like casual touches throughout the day. I like someone who wants to flirtatiously message about times we've shared, I like someone who sends me photos of what they're up to. In general I am kind of a romantic and am really looking for more of a connection than I am hookups or anything purely physical/just kink-focused, and ultimately I'd really prefer something that's leading toward a monogamous relationship.

I unironically love the music of Chappell Roan, Mitski, Lana, Chari, and similar. I listen to music pretty much all the time so I have all kinds of stuff on, but take those being current favorites as either red flags or green flags as you will. My favorite philosopher is Ayn Rand and I don't really care much for other philosophers. I will almost assuredly try to show you 12 Monkeys, Dark City, and Nausicaä of the Valley of the Wind.

I've been told I have "golden retriever vibes", that I am a "Lana boy", and that I'm "girl-coded" and a "lesbian boyfriend".

My dick is 6.7 inches without anything too weird about it.

What am I looking for?

I'm honestly into all kinds of kinky things, and have done a lot in the space with my previous partners. I'm pretty much entirely a dom, and my preferences include a lot of things that generally surround something like being a mad scientist experimenting on someone in a lab. I've tried a lot of the medfet type of stuff, a lot of the "tied up with breast milkers, a buttplug, and a bunch of vibrators", etc. I like the whole "packaging" kink everyone over at r/packofilia are kinda pioneering, I love extreme machine bondage, honestly I'm just really into the space in general and enjoy being dominant in bed. Outside of my super kinky fantasies, I like gags, bondage, and being tender and encouraging while someone is tied up. I can get into body writing and some humiliation type stuff; it's kinda fun to see someone perform for me. In general I prefer to keep it tender even if extreme. Overall I'll really try anything, like I said I'm pretty sexually adventurous, I just prefer to be a dom. I'm open to the TPE 24/7 dynamic with the right person after some time getting to know each other.

Like I said, I've had a couple close missed connections on here recently, and just in general figured I'd reach out again and see if anyone was interested. Kinky people are rare and if my post speaks to you, let's see what's up.