There is a surprisingly amount of people lurking post that desire a dynamic but are skeptical and somehow I want this post to speak to them as I used to have same beliefs. I imagine that the idea of doing this might sound not affordable long term or that it might be seen as a side thing. That is, sadly, true in some cases but I am looking and offering something I consider thrilling and exciting, but at the same time genuine and real.

I am a Dom looking for a Sub and what I shall share in this post is some of my insights. Not looking to be particularly persuasive, just looking to actively build something along the lines of what I described with someone who is as like-minded. I have experience and a natural tendency towards guidance. At my core, I genuinely consider myself attentive but with a huge twist when it comes to dominant headspace. I become sadistic and looking to put my partner on her knees for my pleasure. This is the most important aspect to take in consideration if you are reading this post. I am very set on what I want, but I am open minded and aware that being dominant is not just about receiving but also giving. This won't be one sided.

Diving deeper into details, I am not looking for a vanilla/traditional relationship. Personally I do not like labels but it's a quick way to introduce what my idea behind it is. I want you to feel special but at the same time I expect this comes back to me: I shall have a very marked role in your life as your Dom being the one you trust, that has control over you (consensually and agreed on) and who guides you, both sexually and emotionally. My control should enhance the way you feel, the things you do but not restrict them. If you are a good girl I'll make you feel like you're the best one, and if you're a slut I should push you to be even sluttier. Me being here is not just a kink but more of a lifestyle so I'd appreciate if that was not taken lightly when reaching out.

When it comes to having preferences, I do have some. I am no hypocrite and I think it is useful to share what matters to me so that you can have an idea. My ideal partner is an attention seeker, enjoys being obedient, loves a good funishment. Experienced, but most importantly craving a long term, meaningful connection with a dominant figure in her life. Not just getting off. Much better if clingy as well and with darker kinks that average such as free use or being shared. Speaking of kinks, there would be enough to write their own paragraph but none are mandatory. We can gladly talk about it in private but the idea is I'm not looking for a "kink dispenser".

If you made it this far, do not be hesitant about sending a message. A simple conversation won't hurt am I right? Worst case scenario is we are not a good match but if there is a chance I can give you the butterflies, you should take it.