Hii! fellow sex nerd. That is what the webcomic Sunstone called the bdsm crowd haha... People who like to geek over the sexual dynamics. I quite like this nomenclature, won't you agree?

I enjoy reading erotica and romance from time to time, if that is something you'd like to talk about, or if you want to try reading something together! Let's make it happen! These days I am reading "Book Lovers" by Emily Henry. It has a lot of flirty-innocent banter between the main characters. I love reading flirty-innocent banter. In fact, that is the whole reason I began reading it. There's a lot of erotica and romance novels out there, unfortunately a lot of it is less than mediocre. This one is engaging though, I recommend it wholeheartedly :)

Recently began reading the community recommended Bottoming and Topping books by Janet and Dossie. I have both sides in me; I'm a switch.

What I am looking for?

A conversation in which the non-sexual and sexual elements of our lives are shared with equal enthusiasm. Within the bounds of whatever you are comfortable in sharing, of course. How does this sound?

Texting each other sporadically throughout the day to share random and mundane information about happenings during the day. Couple that with a literate discussion of bdsm and kinks, and you've got what I intended by the post title. C'est la recette!!

So tell me what has been on your mind? Or I can tell you what has been on my mind. Indeed, sometimes whatever is happening in the mind could be less than uplifting. Which is ok!We can either talk about it, or we can talk about something else to take a break from the struggles of life.

Come on then, let's be goofy, serious, and silly :)

PS: Everyone is welcome. Cis, trans, non-binary, etc. Neurodivergent, neurotypical, etc. If you are able to text, we can connect :)

Age preference: 22 and above