Going to be as authentic as I can so it's a bit long. But we're all just looking for the dream, right? May as well open my heart. ❤️❤️

🚨Read all and when you message me tell me about you, what attracted you to the lifestyle and why you would make the best "good boy" to me. Then we'll talk about how I could be the best Dom to you.

*I'm a (childless)Cougar. New and studying softdom/nurturing mommy (no age play) or FLR dynamics.

• I'm 49 and prefer dating in the 30's up to 45. Recently the late 20's crowd has liked me. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Be at least 27 and ready for a relationship. Take the age difference into consideration as I'm looking for a long term partner and eventually you'll have to take me home to mom. 😘

Regardless of age would desire amazing mental/spiritual/physical connection as I'm looking for my forever guy.

💎I'm curvy/chubby and prefer men with great muscular bodies or skinny/ lean. No dad bods bc I bring the squish to the relationship and I'm into it. I gotta know you're wild about your Chonky Mistress using your face as my throne. I've struggled accepting my beautiful body in all my shapes and sizes. One of my subs services would be worshipping my body so I'm more confident Domming him. I would love if my sub took personal interest in his Dom's well being, so taking me to the gym, cooking for me and giving me baths would make you the best boy. Would you learn to give me pedicures and how to do my hair?

💎 For my good boy, I'm a nurturing, caring FemDom that wants to learn and explore more. I may send you things to watch regarding spirituality or growing in our respective roles, you may do the same for me so we both grow. I'm very spiritual and think it's important to do inner work so we're at our best for each other. Emotionally healthy enough to live without each other but choose to be connected at the hip.

🍊 I'm living with family in Idaho but am wanting to get back to Socal full time. If you could get me back to Orange County you'd have one happy Dom showering you with all the love and affection and "good boys" you could handle. I also think there would be good in- person events to learn more about the D/s lifestyle together in Socal. But I'm looking for my forever boy so if you're established somewhere different I would consider moving to you.

I'm 49 but have lived a carefree life and my ambitions are people, relationships and spiritually as priorities. I am not a Cougar/Dom that could support you financially. I work but not in career type industries anymore (substitute teach). If I was financially independent (come on Mega Millions 😂) nothing would make me happier then making a home for you and creating a peaceful, fun life for my subby. I'm like a Trad Mom vibe with a power needs that I want met. I want to bake for you then make you clean up after me... Naked.

Me- 5'8, blonde (colored), green eyes, very large natural breasts, standard issue white girl butt, most of my weight is in my stomach so must hot for that body shape.

👣I have great feet and always have my nails painted and love to have fake eyelashes (they make me feel like Bambi)! I have beautiful teeth and an engaging smile. I'm smart, funny (used to do comedy) and am outgoing but I recharge as an introvert, hopefully with you pampering me soon.

You-at least 2 inches taller than me. Taller the better as I prefer it outside the bedroom. Nice body (love strong biceps)Younger, 45 max (if closer to my age must still want kids as I'd love to adopt), I'm generally attracted to the strong, silent type but I don't mean someone who doesn't communicate. I just generally like the energetics of someone opposite of me. I enjoy someone to have deep conversations with about topics we're passionate about. I'm not political so if it's important to you, I don't think it would work. Be content in your life and not victimized by everything around you. You're ok with the D/s dynamic in the bedroom but not in public unless it was for play.

-Monogamy only! Not interested in swinging, cuckolding or additional partners. -No simps! -Maybe when I'm really comfortable, a year into a relationship I would consider pegging you but I don't like it now. -If you have kids and a lot of obligations, I'm not your Dom. I'm not unreasonable but I'll want a lot of your attention. Unless you're a hot widow that needs a Mom for his kids and a Mommy for him. We can talk. 😉 -I will publicly adore you and won't be your secret. Nobody has to know what happens outside the house. -I prefer traditional M/F roles outside the house. -Please have a positive outlook on life. I wouldn't work with a pessimist.

Please respond with a ⚡ in your message so I know you read all of the post. Tell me why you should be my good boy. I'll want to video chat very quickly to weed out fakes and hopefully meet soon.

Thank you for reading darling subs! I can't wait to find the right one and adore him forever.