About me: -hi there! I’m an ER nurse, mom, married (but lackluster bedroom) -ENFP, Enneagram 7 if you’re into that sort of thing (don’t worry I won’t box you into personality tests 😆) -Generally seen as a passionate, energetic person. I’m adventurous, love life, work hard, and have a passion for life. I am fabulously wealthy and don’t need any money 😂 -I don’t have many pet peeves but they are: laziness, ingenuity, and being an uncaring person -Body wise I’m curvy, I have a belly and a nice butt and D/DD boobs. I’m a size 10 dress. I do work out 2-3 times a week and have an insanely active job (I walk 10 miles a shift) so I do have some muscle in those curves haha! -Sub wise I think I could describe myself as a service sub, though I'm pretty new to the lifestyle.

About who I’m looking for: -definitely looking for a man who’s older than me (I’m 32), also married, a dad (we don’t need to talk about kids I just think DILFs have a different quality I like better 😆), doing this in secret sorta thing -I tend to gravitate towards cranky personalities I love sunshine x grumpy 😂 -You have to be a hard worker. If you talk about how you’re late to work or how you hate your job or how you wish you didn’t have to work that just makes me lose respect and I can’t deal with it 😭 as someone who works hard herself! -I sound like a snob but I have an advanced degree (master’s) and would prefer someone with one too! This all just ties into who I’d feel like submitting myself to. -Willing to put the relationship before the Ds stuff. It feels disingenuous to me if we do the latter! -Body wise I’m generally more attracted to men who are taller than me (I’m 5 7 - ridiculous since I’m asking online I know 😂), a little muscular with a little bit of dad bod in there, and bonus if you’re hairy/ have a mustache or beard 🤤 -To summarize: someone who is bigger, taller, older, wiser, and crankier than me hahaha -Willing to show myself early/ show you my main Reddit account with my (faceless at first) pictures early!