hi! i'm here in search of a long term caregiver and dom, someone bigger and stronger than me who's willing to train me/put me in my place/provide some extra structure to my life! (i in fact prefer my partners to be heavier than me, so don't be scared off if you're chubby too!) and if you're not looking to date, i'd love to be friends regardless hehe. i love making friends in the community. i'm from michigan and would love some irl dates and visits, so the closer the better :) i've been a part of the community for years but honestly don't know all too much. seeking a healthy dom/cg to guide me is my number one priority. the hottest trait i look for in a partner is a sense of humor, and someone who's good with communication. i love people that can make me laugh! i adore watching people game and learning about stuff they enjoy. please don't be afraid to tell me everything! i love hearing what you have to say 💕 besides if i have to carry the conversation the whole time (a.k.a asking all the questions and double texting to remind you i exist) it won't work out.

a bit about me; i'm 22, a chubby trans man and a femboy at heart 💕 (willing to show pics in dms if curious) i'm very soft spoken at first but the more confident the person i'm around is, the more i come out of my shell. i act like an easily excitable dog when i get to know people and like being able to turn my brain off. i'm a brat and a little, though my littlespace is strictly SFW. my petspace is NSFW though, please make me into your good boy and put me in my place hehe. i do enjoy sub/dom dynamics in and outside the bedroom, though i prefer to keep it (mostly) pg in public. i love going on cute dates and clinging to my dom to make sure i don't get lost in a crowd. silly and sweet cg's are my favorite! i'm willing to discuss more in detail through dms :)

i am poly, and currently have a partner who is a dom/cg, but he is very busy with his job so he doesn't often have the time to provide the care i want and need. he is aware and approving of me searching for a second cg, and at some point he will probably want to say hi to you (or more, depending on how things go and what you're comfortable with). i'm not interested if you're seeking out more than me and potentially my partner, unless you have a previous established partner, but that can be discussed in dms. i require a personal and emotional connection to someone before anything sexual happens. we can discuss kink upfront but only to set boundaries with them. hard limits (that i can think of off the top of my head) are race play, incest play, toilet play (pee/poop, any of it), anal, feet, beastiality, anything illegal, etc.

a more serious about me; i am leftist, punk, pro-palestine, feminist, prochoice, all that jazz. if you have anything to do with the right wing, please don't speak to me. my sleep schedule is also a bit erratic as i have insomnia, so my texting may be a bit limited at times. also a reminder! searching for long term only, please and thank you.

sorry for the block of text! but i like to be upfront about everything i can be so there's no confusion. if you've read to the end, maybe you can shoot me a message and tell me a bit about yourself too? i can't wait to get to know you 💕💕