Hi! I'm looking for my forever person (and dom, ofc). Please do NOT message me if you're married. I am not willing to share my dom. I don't want kids. If you want them, we will not be a match. Not looking for online only. Willing to relocate, unless you live somewhere worse than SC. 😂

I want to get to know the vanilla you before the kinky you. Surely you have a personality outside of kink, right? Right?

Quick about me:

Traveling is my thang, whether it be a day trip to Charlotte, weekend trip to NYC, or a two week trip abroad...I'm there! My goal is get into reading- beyond audio books. I'll currently listening to Wizard of Oz. I'm quite progressive and I want a dom who is as well. I am afraid of driving...sooooo maybe you can teach meee and be of encouragement! As for music, my top 3 bands are- Dayseeker, The Used, and The Plot In You. I've seen 2 out of the 3.

Sooooo. I'm not great at explaining the kinky side of me. I know that'll cost me the amount of messages I'll get. But but but a lot of messages don't equate to finding a great dom. There's a lot of bad doms on reddit.

I'm not experienced in this realm- but don't mistake that for "I can take advantage of her". I'm looking for a good and patient teacher. I DO work. But but- I do want something that's close to 24/7, but in our own way. I want the dom/sub dynamic interwoven into the relationship. I want a dom who understands that sex is only a small part of the dynamic. Well, at least for me. I want the rules. I want the punishments. I want to relinquish control (not 100% of control. I don't want to ask permission to go pee).

PLEASE Be 30 or over. PERIOD!!!! I don't care if you claim to be mature for your age (doubt). 30-45. I don't care if you claim to look young for your age. I don't care if you claim to act younger (which isn't a good thing, really).

Limits:

1. I am NOT a switch. I am not a domme.
2. Flat out ageplay isn't my thing. I'm naturally immature. I gravitate towards caretaker style doms. However, I don't have to act 5 to achieve that dynamic.
3. Cum play grosses me out. No thanks. That being said, I'm not into breeding.
4. I'm not looking for a sadist. Do not message me if you're a sadist.
5. Scat