This is my last time posting on here and then I promise I'm going to give up and just masterbate for the rest of my life.....

I am looking for my person, someone more than just my Dom, a connection deeper than just a partner. I am looking for someone who wants to be my everything. I'd prefer a Dom in the same timezone as me, but open to anyone in the US as long as scheduling works for both of us as it’s SUPER important to me to have regular daily communication. I am looking for a Dom who has the time and desire for a dynamic. I would like something that extends to IRL but doesnt have to begin there.

As a sub I appreciate structure and thrive with routines or tasks that enhance both my personal and sexual dynamics. Safety, patience, and understanding are key qualities I value in a Dom and ideally, I’d like to explore various aspects of BDSM together in a way that fosters a fulfilling experience for us both.

I need a Dom that understands the importance of aftercare and talking through any elements that are challenging. Someone who understands how to not only give orders and tasks, but how to lead us both to fulfillment. I don’t want a dynamic that feels like fantasy but you should be able to talk and coach us both through to an orgasm using your imagination. Additionally, I am only looking for someone who is unmarried or uncommitted, Im not interested in anyone in a poly-dymamic.

I believe that submission is not just about obedience but about creating a deep, trusting partnership where I can fully explore my role while supporting my Dom's leadership. For the right Dom, I am prepared to surrender control over my entire being, allowing that power to deepen our dynamic and trust. I am also dedicated to self-improvement and personal growth through daily tasks and challenges designed to enhance my qualities as a submissive. These acts are not just gestures of obedience but also demonstrations of my devotion and desire to serve meaningfully.

I will NOT share pics immediately trust needs to be built/established first. I am a black women, and i am plus size (but working on my physical fitness). If any of this is a hard pass please dont bother messaging me.

If you interested please send me a thoughtful message sharing your favorite color (so i know you read my entire post), a bit about yourself, your experience, and what you’re looking for in a dynamic. Messages that show effort and consideration will definitely catch my attention.

Thanks <3