Hey! I'm a 32 year old Asian woman and I'm focusing on my health and well-being nowadays. Ideally I'd want to meet my special sub and start a family. It took me a while to process all the trauma and come out on the other brighter side :) I feel ready to have a healthy and secure relationship. Obviously that's a long shot but I've seen quite a few stories of people who met on reddit and got married.

I'm looking to be friends first and partners later. Sexual chemistry is important but it feels empty when the foundation isn't there.

I'm bisexual so please ladies don't be shy! And I'm not looking for a unicorn. I'm a single & monogamous Domme looking for my precious sub. Also someone who is single and monogamous please.

My main interests are stand up comedy, podcasts, movies (I attend a local movie club, it's awesome), I loveeee music especially rap but I also like symphony orchestra and some other genres. I love animals, I have 1 cat. I love history, anthropology, philosophy. I'm probably forgetting some interests now. Btw I understand this is reddit but I'm not into videogames, anime, or board games 😁 I'm not against any of those either, I just have no interest. I also believe that shared interests aren't a big deal, but a shared background, shared values & perspectives are way more valuable.

In terms of age, my lower limit is 30 and upper limit is 40 (one odd year older or younger is no big deal, just not a drastic difference).

Low effort messages will be ignored ofc but feel free to send a nice intro message and I'll mostly likely respond. Also, a photo of my face: https://imgur.com/gallery/FjuFwVJ. I'd probably ignore messages with no pic. I want to see who I'm talking to instead of an anonymous chat

In terms of potentially closing the distance, we'll talk about it once we get there lol. I'm looking for my sub locally as well (but as we all know, finding your special one is hard).

For now, let's just get to know each other and see if there is a genuine connection!

Let's go :)

EDIT: Lmao go ahead, downvote me, toxic doms 😁😁