I’m a submissive, masochistic brat that may be willing to be a slave if the dynamic is right. I’m looking for someone to primarily chat with online for now, with the potential of meeting in person if all works out and a level of trust is established. I want this to lead to a real relationship, not just a d/s dynamic so if you’re not in for the long run, don’t bother. I don’t have real world experience with the BDSM world, all of my knowledge about myself and the dynamics comes from online research (ie smut books and various online threads).

A few things that are a must for me if we are to pursue a relationship, in no particular order as they are all equally important; - Power exchange and mental domination - I like to see my partner as someone who is superior to me, someone who will remind of my place when I get too bratty and not let me back down too easy. - The physical aspects of the relationship/dynamic - I like being used, I like pain, edging, orgasm control (denial and overstimulation), funishments, impact play, sensory deprivation, gentle choking (not breath play), teasing, humiliation and degradation, and I’m a sucker for praise (especially combined with degradation 🥴). I may be open trying CNC to an extent - rules will be agreed to if this comes up and I have no experience with it, just an interest at the moment. - I want this to be fun too! If we aren’t both enjoying it, there’s no reason for us to be doing anything. I want a dom, but I also want a friend and partner.

A little about me: - 5’4ish, on the heavier side but that just means I have great thighs and great tits. (Although I have a lot of self image issues with my body itself, I know I’m pretty ☺️) blonde hair, blue eyes, glasses :) - There are really only two physical attributes I’m looking for - please be at least a few inches taller than me (so like 5’8 ), and I’d prefer a beard! I am very flexible on anything else :) - When I’m not working, you can find me reading (mostly dark) romance, playing pc games with my friends, or settling down with my switch and one of my cats (I have 5, I’m so sorry— I also have 2 dogs!)

If you think you fit what I’m looking for, please reach out to me! We can talk and see where it goes. I’m totally okay just making friends as well! Please don’t just drop a “Hi” - be more engaging, and please try to have proper grammar most of the time 😅 I hate to be that person, but constant improper grammar irks me more than it should.

(PS - Apologies for any format issues! Using the mobile app and copy/pasted from my notes bc that was the easiest way to type everything!)