Hello everyone,
I’m currently looking for a submissive who desires to embrace their need for control, crave discipline, and is ready to explore their boundaries in a safe and trusting dynamic.

About me:

I’m an early 30s male that has been into BDSM for more than 10 years. From a distance at first then slowly exploring deeper and deeper. As someone who is very curious, I’ve read a multitude of stories and life experiences about D/s. I have discussed and met people living it and I’m fascinated by submissives able to push their experience further than anyone could imagine.
Even if I’m constantly evolving in my practice, I have a clear view of what I aim for and what motivates me to build a strong D/s relationship.

Outside of this, I have a master degree in science and worked as an engineer for a few years. I recently changed my job to something that holds more responsibilities and comes with different challenges.
My main hobby is probably sports. I sometimes push it too much for my own benefit but can hardly live without it. That being said, I also enjoy playing video games as it’s something I grew up with and is still quite an important part of me.
I also tend to have a “passing” hobby that usually lasts from 6 months to a year. Physics, music, race cars, DIY and so on…
For the physical appearance, if it matters, I’m 1m80 , brown hairs that are slowly turning grey on the side, hazel eyes and definitively fit.
To be honest, it’s quite hard to describe myself in a few lines as I prefer to stop here. All questions are welcome though. I’m basically an open book as long as you are respectful.

What to expect as a submissive ?

The main values I expect from you are honesty and trust. I don’t believe that a successful dynamic can be built without them. Honesty is something that I expect from the start. Trust is something that has to be earned for both sides.
As for the dynamic, my goal is quite simple: using your kinks and cravings against you to turn you into the perfect submissive I want you to be. Even though I really enjoy torturing a submissive in a good way, what I like the most is toying with your mind. Slowly building my control over you, imposing my rules and transforming you. I want to shape you to my desire and use you for my pleasure.
As you probably understood by now, I want something long term.

My kinks:

• Control: any kind of control. tease & denial, clothing and way more. Where we put the stop will depend on you. It’s something that will be built over time.
• Humiliation: nothing more exciting than seeing you go lower and lower for my sole pleasure. Listening and obeying like a good submissive slut. That being said, this one may not be for everyone and requires a certain headspace. How much you are into it (or not into it) will greatly shape how this kink will go.
• Anal: self explanatory
• Rules & task: structuring your education to turn you into the perfect submissive.
• Shibari (or anything related to bondage/restraints): probably not the easiest or most interesting kink to do online but I’m sure that it still has quite some potential.
• Hidden public: I really enjoy the idea of a submissive in the open world, completing one of my tasks while innocent people are around. Hidden from them yet really close. The excitement mixed with the fear only makes it better. I would perfectly understand that you have a problem with this one though.

Kinks that I’m interested in exploring but may be a bit too extreme for some. If you don’t have experience or are not interested in them you can ignore this list.

• TPE
• Hypnosis
• Objectification

Both of these lists are not exhaustive.

Side note: unless you are very well aware of the risk and show an important desire related to that, I’m not interested in anything that puts you at risk mentally, physically and socially.

My requirements:

• Female
• Living in a similar time zone. I’m from Europe currently at GMT 1
• Communication: a decent English (or French) is a must. It will be hard to communicate if you are not able to hold a text message conversation.

I don’t have any requirements regarding experience. If you are fully new to it we will go slowly and I’ll guide you step by step.

You read the full post, now what? I see 3 scenarios:

• You think that it was very well written. Perfectly structured, full of interesting details with a grammar that would make Shakespear jealous. Sadly, you are not interested and continue your day with a “wow, what a post!”.
• My post appeals to your submissive senses and makes you want to dive in. You know that you want to explore and experience something thrilling and exciting. In that case, you send me a message presenting yourself, your experience, kinks and adding any details you find relevant.
• You read this post once. Maybe twice? Maybe more? Yet you don’t feel quite ready. It may be my list of kinks, your lack of experience, your fear of the unknown. You may feel like you are not a good match? In that case, you can still send me a message to simply talk. The opening is yours.