Hello. Are you tired of having free reign over when you get release? Stuck in instant gratification, with no self control? I'm here to help. I derive great pleasure from keeping others from orgasming, and I'd like to find someone to deny. While we can start out slowly, the goal here would be to move you into long-term denial, where you won't get anything but teasing for days, weeks and months.

About me:
I'm a native German speaker, 1,96m / 6ft5, slim build, mustache and long, brown hair. I've been playing with my dominant side for about seven years now, and haven't had any complaints so far. My style is usually loving and caring, rather than high protocol. In my vanilla life I study compsci, play jazz drums, create drawings and build sculptures from steel and clay. I live in my own in the general Schöneberg area. Here's an artsy pic of me.

My kinks:
Orgasm control, edging and denial, female chastity, deepthroat training/face fucking, and hidden public play with remote vibrators. I greatly enjoy causing pain to masochistic cuties who are vocal about their enjoyment. Harder fantasies include hypnosis, mental conditioning, free use, and somno play.

Limits:
Hard limits I've found so far are blood, needles, permanent tissue damage, feces, diapers, references to incest or children, and brutal CNC. Softer limits include vomit, urine, and crying. Due to a sensory issue, I have a very hard time having hair or stringy things in my mouth, so that limits who I can give head to. I prefer honesty and focus over bratting and indirect communication. It can be fun to playfully test boundaries, but that requires time and trust.

About you:
You are AFAB under the age of 37, a Berlin resident and inherently excited about the idea of giving up control over your pleasure. Experience as a submissive and with negotiation are preferred, though if that's not the case, we can take things slower. I go to therapy and have a relatively stable social life, and hope it's the same for you. If we share vanilla interests that's a plus - I enjoy knowing my play partners out of scene too.

If this speaks to you, I'd love to hear from you. Even if we don't end up playing, I always love a good talk about kink.