Hello ladies,

I am looking for a long term partner. I am an experienced dominant looking for either and experienced or inexperienced submissive. I’m looking to start a relationship online before you relocate to me.

About myself…

I am 30 years old. I am white and hispanic. I am 6 foot two inches tall. I come from a well off family. I am someone that has been blessed to have many opportunities to learn about myself and to learn what I do and do not like. My family is very traditional. Think old money traditional. Spending summers in Europe going to Michelin starred restaurants every night and month long vacations to Asia. This might immediately sound like an amazing time and it is but my family is large and often problematic. My family being as traditional as it is comes with conservative ideals which is sometimes difficult for some people to understand/tolerate. You will need to understand or tolerate it. I will not allow you to speak poorly about my family to myself or to others. This is a point of contention and non negotiable. I care deeply about my family and if you were to become part of it I will care deeply and protect you with the same zeal.

I love to cook. I used to cook professionally for a few years. Working in some of those very same Michelin restaurants that my family and myself enjoy. I have an extensive cookbook collection and often refer to them when making dinners for myself or my large family. As an example this past thanksgiving I served about 15 people about 15 different dishes not including all of desserts that I put together. I spend a lot of time in the kitchen. It is one of my happy places. As such I’m a bit of a homebody, but I also love going to the movies, restaurants, bars, baseball games, and skeet shooting when I can get around to it. If you’ve never shot a shotgun(or a gun in general) I can absolutely teach you and would love to in fact. If you are a good shot I look forward to the challenge as I am not.

Obviously there is no way to entirely describe myself as I am bad at this but endeavor to do so regardless. I have been described as hard working, stubborn, caring, and generous. My love languages are gift giving and physical touch (more on that later). I spend a lot of time at work as I am very career focused. My job sometimes requires that I move from place to place every 2 years or so. I have lived in New York, San Francisco, Miami, New Orleans, Seattle, Atlanta, and Denver. Being with me means that you need to be flexible. I know it sounds selfish and that’s because it is. I want to grow my career and make my own way.

Although my family is exceedingly well off I am not. Working as a cook as you can imagine is not going to pay for all of those exotic and far off vacations. I have recently changed career paths, in the last few years, and am making decent money, around $115k before my bonus, but not as much as I’d like. There is a career path in front of me and I am on the road, however I am not there at this moment but I expect to be in the future.

What I’m looking for…

I’m looking for a beautiful woman. Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. Tall, short, thin or thick. White, black, Asian, Hispanic, all women are welcome. I love feminine woman. A women that isn’t afraid to put on some makeup and dress herself up. I’m also looking for someone who is impossibly submissive. I’m not looking for a brat but someone who takes orders and likes being told what to do and when to do it. Someone who likes to de controlled entirely. However this situation is very much a freak in the sheets and a lady on the streets. As my family is traditional the dynamic that you and I will share is totally private. You will not wear collars in public or any other bdsm-esque clothing. You will be traditional looking. Skirts and dresses; that sort of thing. All though I love women I am monogamous. I am not looking for a poly relationship.

However privately I have a very high sex drive. I could have sex everyday. I’m also on the kinkier side of things. I am very vocal during sex and I talk a lot and love it when my partner talks too. If you like being tied up, gagged, and plugged then we are very compatible. I also love anal and would be willing to train you if necessary. If you squirt that’s a plus but not necessary. I’m also into humiliation/degradation and hope that you are equally interested. Additionally I’m very much a sadist and am looking for my forever masochist. I’m not looking to cause scars or permanent marks but you must be willing and excited. The ddlg / master dynamic works for me and am looking for someone who is also interested.

You should be…

Well spoken and educated and beautiful. Someone who is caring and nurturing and obviously willing to conform to some of the interesting parts of my life that are rigid and unwavering. If this sounds like you please reach out and let me know that you are looking for the same thing. If not I wish you all the best as you look for your forever masochist ❤️