Hello there,

I’m a 40-year-old man living in Washington state, and I’m ready to meet someone who’s as driven, curious, and open-hearted as I am. By day, I’ve got my act together with a successful career in tech leadership, a comfortable home, and a sense of purpose that keeps me aiming high. Yet, what I truly want now is to share that life with a partner who can match my ambition out in the world, but who also knows she can lean back and let go in our private moments.

A deeply seated paternal instinct drives my desire for intimacy built on compassionate power exchange. I want to lead us together as a team and I want to guide you to become everything you can be. Trust is an essential part of this dynamic and I want to earn the honor of your submission and I want to feel empowered by what the gift of your submission means for our relationship.

A meaningful relationship thrives on trust, respect, and emotional connection. I believe a D/s dynamic can grow beautifully within that kind of bond, enhancing both our trust and our shared experiences.

A partner who sees her submission as an act of strength and pride is deeply attractive—someone with ambition, high standards, and a strong sense of self. This isn’t just about finding a submissive to satiate a kink. I’m searching for a life partner, a best friend, a future mother to our children, and someone who can be both my lover and my submissive. I am looking for someone who embodies femininity, in all its wonderful expressions. In my experience, I am typically drawn to someone who can be outgoing and leads in their career but finds peace and strength in embracing their submissive self with me and under my guidance.

Physical attraction is an essential part of connection for me, and I find myself drawn to women with a slender or petite figure who prioritize fitness and a balanced lifestyle. This isn’t about arbitrary standards or checking boxes—it’s about a shared approach to self-care, health, and confidence that naturally fosters mutual attraction.

If this resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you. Let’s begin a conversation and see where it might lead.