Hi there :) I’ve been debating on writing this for so long. Many different factors led me to talking myself out of it. One is that I’d like to move out of state next year-thinking Colorado. But subconsciously I’m looking for a reason to stay. Another factor is that I’m not sure if what I’m looking for is realistic. A loving, cruel, somewhat sadistic, supportive, sane man who treats people well, doesn’t gaslight, respects our privacy, doesn’t lie, has his life mostly together, doesn’t have kids (but wants them), and is marriage minded. He has to be a leader. And be comfortable ’raising’ his girlfriend/wife. If you know then you know. There’s more.. But he is elusive.

Me: single black female with no kids. Curly hair that I keep braided. Currently fat, but I’ve been successfully working on it for a while. My basics are in order: Great job that has potential to be a career, reliable transportation, & a stable place to live. I’ve put school on pause until January 2026. We can talk about that later! I’ve been described by my exes as being a caterer. I do like to cater to my man. I tend to be submissive. But I won’t submit if I can tell you’ll lead me astray. We should be able to come together without detailing the other’s life. I’m a submissive with a mind, but have no qualms about doing what I’m told and deferring to you. I tend to be quiet until I know people. I have friends, but I spend a lot of time alone. You won’t find me at a club or concert.

More me (needed a paragraph hahaha): I do like books and reading. I set a goal of one a month (I’m busy lol). Shopping brings me joy. Lol is that typical of my gender? My apartment is colorful and decorated-not in a maximalist fashion. The gym is a priority. I eat 70% clean. If you don’t eat veggies or like to try different food we probably won’t mesh. If you want a hand in my fitness I won’t fight you :)

Kinks: Face-fucking, choking, free use, tasks, being submissive. I think I want to try anal. Can I use your cum as my coffee creamer? Do you want to feed me your cum instead of letting me have dinner? Can I live off of cum as a meal? The list looks small, but I’ll try most things. I love oral. Receiving is fun, but I love to give. It’s a daydream of mine to be my man’s dick holster for a day. Just sitting/laying with it in my mouth until he wants me to suck it. But is that realistic?

Limits: Humiliation, anything public, scat, blood, permanent damage, & broken bones.

I’m looking forward to talking with you. Happy New Year!