hi hi, i’m a demisexual native Texan looking for a new experience! i’ve been in the lifestyle for a few years now, and i’ve always been a submissive (i tried being a dominant, and it didn’t work for me haha). i closely identified with the dd/lg side of it for a while, and i like it, but i want to experience other sides as well.

before continuing, there are two things i’ve got to mention that are usually make-or-breaks for people and i don’t want you to waste your time: 1) i’m a virgin and would like to keep it for a while longer, and 2) i live at home for the time being — so if either of these bother you, please stop reading now

in my vanilla life, i’m a leader in a bunch of different spaces, and i’m also an engineering student, so i often feel like my brain is working nonstop. my ideal person is someone (between ages 20-30) who enjoys turning subs into brainless, obedient good girls whose focus at a given time is just her Dominant. it’d start out nonsexual, and go further if it goes well.

my physical description: light skinned (african american), 5’3, mid-sized/chubby/curvy (idk), naturally dark brown hair, brown eyes, big chest and large thighs, some say i’m cute but i’ll let you be the judge of that

my personality: i’m very introverted and generally quiet shy and reserved around people. in a friendship or relationship, i definitely prefer being calm and listening, but i do become more open and expressive with the right person. i guess i’m what people would consider as having a “black cat” personality but i care a lot about what those close to me think, borderline obsessing. i’m also fairly tomboy-ish but i’ve been working on my feminine side.

ideally, you’d be someone with a “golden retriever” personality but i don’t mind if you’re not :)

my interests: * non-kink: cooking, baking, crocheting, playing piano and guitar, singing, riding my longboard, reading and writing stories, fitness, learning languages, all manner of rock/alternative/emo music, casual fashion, the color purple * kink: praise/degradation, affectionate cruelty, breath play (including choking and deep-throating), impact play, auralism, bimbofication, dd/lg, discrete public play, doing tasks, orgasm control/denial, bondage * hard limits: most bodily fluids (soft limit on spit), sharp objects, permanent damage, extreme pain

that’s all i have at the moment, but if you’re curious about something or you’re interested, my dms are open ^{^} thanks for reading