I am a Daddy Dominant first and foremost. Maybe that is a bit archaic or antiquated, but I find it suits me. It accurately represents my values, and desires as a Dominant, and as a man. I've always believed we should encourage, support, and nurture each other. The world is ugly, and violent enough we don't need adversaries in every aspect of our lives. I value peace, I value acceptance, I value comfort. These are values I want my partner to share with me.

What this all means to  you

- I'm nor looking for a brat, as I said I value peace, I value not having to question your motives..

- That my goals are to improve your life. To make sure you care,and value yourself

- To be a source of peace, and comfort in your life,

I am also a sadist listen like everyone else I am multifaceted. I have deeper desires. Yes I enjoy hurting my partner in safe controlled environments. I want to have a safe space where we can explore pain together. 

What this means to you

- That with you I want to explore various aspects of pain, and control.

- It means spanking, paddles, floggers, clothes pins, mixed with pleasure.

- That just because I enjoy hurting you doesn't mean I don't respect you, that is not the case.

I want to control you that means sexually, it also means in your daily life. I'm not deluded, I understand how much trust, and comfort it takes to allow someone to fully surrender themselves to me. It's not a game, or something I take lightly. I'm not in a rush or looking to pressure you into it.  It works in small degrees, you give me a small bit of trust, and we add to that as we grow in each other. 

What this means to you

- It means being open and cognizant of what giving up control of your life means.

- That you are open to trusting me, and allowing me to help you develop and better yourself.

- To demonstrate that I'm not looking to destroy, or harm your life, it's a valid concern.

I want to give you pleasure giving your partner pleasure should be something everyone values, and pursues. Satisfying, and loving your partner is an aspect of the dynamic that we should all explore. It means being open to new experiences, sensations,and situations. Maybe get a little weird with it, see where something goes.

What this means to you

- It means a willingness to get weird with it, to seek pleasure and sexual gratification together.

- That you should desire and pursue pleasure in all its forms, and be open to new experiences.

- Don't allow guilt, and shame to interfere with what gives you the most excitement, pleasure.

This means something to me this isn't a joke, or a way I pass the time. This has significance for me. This is more than just sex for me, I want a foundation of something we create together to be a bastion to all the chaos, and ugliness that is outside in the world. I want a haven for us to shelter, and flourish in. Yeah I know that is a romantic view of things but it absolutely could be a reality if we create, and nourish it together.

What this means to you

- That this is something you take seriously, don't waste my energy if this is just a game to you.

- Be willing to invest in yourself, in me, in us, together time, and energy.

- That you share my values, if this isn't you that's fine just move on and find someone else.

In closing I'm not sure who will see this, or if this will register with anyone. You never know all you can do is pour a part of yourself into something, and work towards what you are trying to achieve. Like all of you I'm a little tired, a little worn down with how the world is, and where things are headed. But there is still always hope, and that is what I'm focused on. Thank you for your time, and consideration, I wish you well on your journey.