Are you the type of person who needs to be in control at work? The type of person who always did all the work for her group projects? Are you also the type of person who wants to be treated like a whore, bent over my lap, and be called filthy names? Then you might just be the perfect little sub for me.

About me (vanilla): I am a confident male from the US. I have a demanding career in healthcare. My hobbies include running, soccer, cooking, reading, gaming, and traveling. I have a penchant for pizza, but also for working out.

About me (non-vanilla): I have been involved in the D/S scene for nearly 9 years now. I have a soft spot for training new subs but really do enjoy experienced subs as well. I enjoy dynamics in which we can be goofy outside the bedroom, but also in which I can expect your full obedience and submission in the bedroom. I like to dabble in power exchange, even if they are am less interested in your sexual submission than I am in your willingness to give up control. I’ve dabbled in some power exchange. I enjoy it, but it can be a lot of work. I’m happy to build up to that with the right person. What is most important is that our personalities click both inside and outside of the bedroom

About you: A willing, obedient, and eager female submissive or slave who is educated, takes care of herself, is open-minded, and can hold a conversation. I am looking for someone who is eager to serve and give up control--someone who has always known that they are submissive. I want a purely monogamous relationship.

Communication: though I can be busy (and you probably are too), I expect that we maintain nearly daily communication.

My kinks: bondage, spanking, ice/wax, deep throating, dp, anal, gags, pain, pussy torture/spanking, shaving, nipple play, training novice subs , orgasm control/denial/edging, humiliation, hidden public.

This was longer than I expected, but I appreciate you sticking with me until the end. If you have made it this far and are interested in seeing if we are a good match, please send me a PM that includes your age, time zone, and your kinks/limits. I look forward to hearing from you!