Hello everyone!

I'm a submissive (29) with a deep craving for D/s dynamics, spanking, and anal play. I'm looking for an experienced and patient Dominant to explore this journey with me online.

I've been in and out of the submission scene, practicing self-spanking for 5 years. I was active on Spanking Needs before it went offline, and I miss those connections. In the past, I've had long-term dynamics with male Doms from various parts of the world, including Australia and the U.S. However, large time differences can sometimes be challenging, so someone closer to my GMT 3 timezone might be ideal.

To address some common questions from the start:

• Online discipline works for me because I believe submission is largely mental. It's a genuine need of mine that I can't ignore.
• While self-spanking isn't as impactful as being spanked by someone else, it's a safe and manageable way for me to explore my kink right now.
• Trust is crucial. Due to anxiety and trust issues, I can't share pictures or videos upfront. Once mutual trust is established, and you're comfortable sharing as well, we can discuss that further.

I'm open to orgasm control (denial is less effective for me) and exploring structured dynamics. I own various implements, including two anal hooks, though I haven’t used them extensively yet. Maintenance spankings have always helped me feel grounded, and I’d like to explore giving up more control—including receiving occasional spankings at your discretion.

After stepping away from discipline in 2024, I'm starting fresh in 2025. My focus is on healing and self-improvement, including regular exercise, healthy eating, and a consistent bedtime routine. In the past, spanking therapy and anal discipline have helped reduce anxiety and enhance my well-being.

While tools like spanking generators and GPTs can assign tasks, they don't compare to the connection of speaking with a real person. If you're interested in chatting, feel free to reach out. I'm always eager to meet kind, like-minded individuals and learn from their experiences.

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