Greetings,

If you are a naturally submissive female aged 18-40 who feels like their life is too much to handle for themselves alone and the thought of giving up control turns you on, you might be reading the correct ad.

I'm looking for a girl to form a transactional BDSM power dynamic with (I do not mean monetary, you may discontinue reading if you are looking for that). I'm willing to assist you with the constant obligation of decision-making that life is probably overwhelming you with. What to wear? What to eat? When to wake up? It could be anything, depending on what your current life situation is like and what you need assistance with. I will decide for you. I will dedicate my time and attention to studying you, so I'm able make the best decisions I can, benefitting the long term goals and aspirations of you, which I have managed to identify both by direct conversation with you and my own input.

And in turn? You give me full control over your sexuality - when/how you touch yourself, when you are allowed to cum, what porn you are allowed to watch etc. If you are currently in a relationship or otherwise sexually active it will be a bit different story, but everything is down to establishing the exact limitations in which this works in anyway, so we will see what we can come up with, based on your individual case. This does not require you to reveal your identity. You may hide your face once we get to you sending me anything and any other information can be as non-specific as you wish.

As for me, I'm 30 years old, average heigh/weight. Educated, a specialist in my field. I will also stay anonymous in this.

I have done this before and it has worked wonders, for both parties. If done right it has the potential to both offer sexual satisfaction and be of great assistance in figuring out things that can be hard to deal with alone.

Few things to consider before writing to me:

Time zone: GMT 2. I will not set a strict restriction on this, but if yours is too far away it could become problematic, for obvious reasons.

Monogamous: I prefer you to be single, but this could be negotiated, if your partner is informed. As for me, I will only be working with one girl. If I'm interested in/attracted to you enough, I will want to dedicate my spare time/attention on you. And it requires quite a bit of those to be done properly, to keep tabs on what your daily life looks like and to make the best informed decisions.

Availability: It's perfectly okay if you have a busy life, so do I, but your schedule (and your way of communicating) should allow you to at least check your phone and exchange short texts throughout the day. Otherwise, this does not work.

Kinks: The more you are into things related to power imbalance the better we will get along. Anything more specific will be discussed in person. You don't have to worry about being too kinky or too inexperienced in the world of BDSM, we will find a comfortable balance.

What to expect: This starts with us discussing things, limitations/expectations and me getting to know you - the more the better. You don't have to be worried about jumping into everything too quickly, things will develop at a negotiated pace that is comfortable for you.

If this is something you are interested in, feel free to dm me and we can discuss things further. Include an introduction/description of yourself, for bonus points you may add a picture. Looking forward to hearing from you.