As the title states, I am a Sadistic Pleasure Dom that is looking for an obedient submissive that is either #online, or in, around, or frequently visits the Socal area. Please have a personality of some sort so I am not talking to a wall. I am flexible to other types of D/s relationships as well, but have a preference for sadistic pleasure. I am also looking for a potential TPE relationship with the right fit. I have pics, stats, and posting history, and a kinklist in my profile. I have experience with D/s relationships and am open to a sub that has experience or one that needs guidance.

Regular self:
I have a wide range of interests and am a true ambivert. I am usually magnetic in a social environment and most people would categorize me as an extrovert. While outgoing and social when the occasion presents itself, I generally prefer "me time" do activities myself and/or with my partner (hence ambivert).

Some day-to-day interests are: sports (watching and playing), delicious food, travel, fine bourbon, PC gaming, kdramas, anime, investing, financial freedom, politics and current events, fantasy novels, board games, etc. If you are interested in knowing about other interests, go ahead and ask about it. I am able to both travel and host.

Kinky self:
I like to have spontaneous "fun". Availability is attractive to me, though that does not mean that I am expecting an instant response. My major kinks are dominance, control, power exchange dynamics. I also enjoy degradation, objectification, dress protocols, impact play, breath play, anal, exhibitionism, edging/orgasm control, cum play, creampie, and a wide range of other kinks. My limits are blood, scat, gore, amputation.

You:
Between 18-37. DDF and willing to provide proof. Can either be experienced or someone exploring for the first time (please note this in your response). I am patient and a teacher so I am open to someone who lacks the experience, but will put in the effort to learn. I am hoping that your kinks match mine, but am willing to work with you to better benefit us both.

You are someone who is able to hold a conversation, has good communication, has hobbies outside of the kink, and hopefully (preferably) also has a sense of humor. I want to hear about your day in-between giving you tasks and edging you into a mindless slut that begs me for relief. Preferably your profile is not made within 2025 or Q4 2024 or you will be able to prove you are not a bot or spammer.

Last notes:
I am looking for someone who will be able to provide their ASL, kinks (preferably a kinklist), their interest in reaching out to me, physical stats, and preferably a photo (with or without face). While I will push you to your kink limits and treat you like I own you, I will always respect your discussed boundaries at the end of the day. A BDSM relationship requires trust, communication, and above all else comfort. I am willing to work with you to reach that point so that we can both enjoy ourselves to our fullest.