Hey there! I hope you’re having a happy new year. Warning, this post is long but informative lol
Let's start with the basics:
I’m a numbers guy by profession in the big city (but work from home), who likes to bring creativity and assertiveness to all aspects of life. This is best witnessed behind close doors, where I’m a gentle Dom/Daddy type, longing for a sweet girl to guide, care for, and conquer
Trust and communication are the most important parts of any relationship to me. I love those deep conversations where you lose track of time because the connection just feels so real and effortless. There’s something beautiful about the kind of vulnerability opening your heart is. Bonus points if you’re funny, or laugh at my bad jokes
I’m after that perfect blend of lighthearted banter and moments that make my heart race when your name pops up on my screen, and I know you’ve been good for me. I’m looking for a connection where trust can grow and both of us can just be ourselves—honest, open, and vulnerable. A real friendship or relationship
Now, the part you've been waiting for—My Kinks.
- Orgasm control/edging
- Degradation (isn’t my go to but can do it if we’ve agreed on it)
- TPE
- Bondage
- Toys
- Praise giving
- Aftercare (Major points for aftercare — it's important for Doms too!)
- Free use
- Rough sex
- Choking (Both ways. I love having it done to me)
- Breeding
- Spanking
I'm sure there's more, but let's leave a little mystery. Now, here are the hard nos:
- Anything illegal (I'm trying to avoid prison, thanks)
- Toilet stuff (Do I really need to explain this?)
- The usual no-go's: kids, animals, blood, extreme violence — you know the drill
A little about me:
I love music, reading, cooking, travelling, and doing anything outdoors; hiking, kayaking, biking, etc. I’m pretty social but I appreciate my alone time to recharge. I’m 6ft, have thick black hair, a beard, brown eyes and I’m pretty fit (though I’ll never say no to snacks lol)
I don’t really have a type physically. I prefer people who are kind, funny, and engaging. I would also love this to become an IRL arrangement eventually. Even if you think there’s something dismissing you, I’d say message me anyways. I’m quite flexible
If you've managed to get through my rambling and are still intrigued, message me and tell me about yourself and what you’re looking for ☺️
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