Evening all, as the title states, I'm a 41 year old submissive guy based in Kent, UK.

I've had a long history in the kink world over the past 20 or so years, and I am looking to form and build a long lasting connection with a dominant woman with similar interests

Disclosure first.. I am happily married and have a family, and I'm not looking to destroy this, or yours.. my home life is reasonably vanilla, but need the other side.of life and my mind to balance things out

This isn't anything new to me.. ultimately I'm looking for someone in either a similar situation, or someone that can understand this.

I've had a few very good Ds dynamics in the past.. each lasting 2-3 years until the other person simply left or disappeared entirely.

Kinky wise.. its a simple "most" response.. everything from denial, humiliation, degradation, sph (although technically probably not that small), cbt / ball busting, chastity, cum eating, anal, pegging.. and so on.

Although I've listed a few there.. kink wise will always be more about what you enjoy. I am your entertainment, someone that wants to focus on your pleasure an enjoyment.

In regards to the type of dynamic.. this could be purely online, or a combination of online and irl depending on locations.

I've a wide collection of toys too.. (can't be trusted with online shopping 🤣) and have a good amount of time alone at home to ensure it will be worthwhile for you.

I enjoy regular communication, and will always prioritise you. I'm definitely not the type to suddenly good quiet for days without telling you.

I'm not bad looking.. fit and healthy (ish).. I can talk about just about anything. I'm smart, and run my own business too

I've only tried one of this posts before, and managed to get all the "rules" wrong, so don't think it ever actually went out.

If what I have written interests you, please drop me a DM.. I'd usually talk long term on kik or snap etc, but happy to start here of course.

I'm not interested in any findom or "send me a one time tribute and I'll be here for ever" type scenario! This needs to be based on mutual enjoyment.

I want to wake up each morning immediately thinking of you, and how I can please you. Something I've not had in a few years now, and missing more and more