Hello and Happy New Year :)!

I’m starting the New Year off by trying to be more intentional in a lot of aspects of my life, with dating being one of them! I’m hoping that this year I’ll find a life partner (so as a starter, if you’re looking for a quick fling, I won’t be a good match for you). With that being said, I want to find the right partner and understand that it takes time to get to know a person and determine capability so I’m not in an urgent rush.

I’m 29 years old and live in NYC. I would describe myself as being a pretty vanilla, “normal” person in my day to day life. I work full time, I spend time with friends, I enjoy the nightlife and restaurant scene that the city has to offer. I enjoy traveling, though it’s been a couple of years since I’ve traveled outside of the US so that’s something I’m hoping to get back into in 2025!

My kinks are fairly broad. I enjoy BDSM, humiliation, DDlg, tasks with rewards/punishments, CNC (eventually obv). I love having a partner who’s really into me and being able to please them. There’s something really exhilarating about trusting and being so attracted to someone that you’re willing to do what they say regardless of how humiliating it makes you feel.

I think my ideal partner would have a very strong level of comfort in the Daddy Dom role. Someone who knows how to read their submissive and push just enough to keep things exciting and fun. Someone who knows how to take a brat. Someone who can ideally make me feel small and powerless, dependent on Daddy for even the most basic decision making steps, but somehow learn to love it. Outside of the bedroom, they would be professionally successful, and socially well adjusted enough to have fun doing normal dating outings.

I’ve experienced punishments as “out there” as forced diaper training to more traditional punishments like spanking, and adore doms who are creative and can really access the psych part of the DDlg dynamic to please us both. If this sounds like you, feel free to reach out and say hello! I am only attracted to people I feel are more intelligent than I am so please put some effort into your first message. The more detailed you can be, the better.