A Dom...a Daddy, but what does that mean? It's quite subjective and will vary from person to person what kind of (Daddy) Dom they want or need. For me, I want someone who will do what it takes to earn my trust and earning my trust involves three, to me, simple things: Patience, Time, and Consistency.

My kinks are hard. My kinks are taboo. My kinks go deep and it's because of these things that I HAVE to make sure that at the end of the day you view me as a person deserving of dignity and respect and that you view me as an equal. Full Stop.

If I feel those things are in place then my submission is yours, but again...it all takes patience, time AND consistency.

A little more about me - I’m a curvy/thick fit, Black girl from the South with brown eyes, black hair, 5’4, DD, and glasses. If you're still trying to decide if you're going to message me, here are some things I'm into: Deep voices, dominant energy. teasing. impact. CNC. feral. Patience. breeding/pregnancy kink. bullying. Effort. degradation. humiliation. force. rope. crying during a scene. Exhibitionism. Pleasure pain. psychological sadism. Men my age or older and believe me I love older. Subspace. Effort.

Things I'm not into: Using honorifics/demanding the use of titles too soon and/or before we've negotiated anything, having (unreasonable) expectations for me while in the "getting to know you/vetting" stage, initial messages that lack effort and show you clearly didn't read my post, not respecting the preference/boundaries I've shared. Any sort of "I've never been with a Black girl" or "Love Ebony women"...it's gross and will be ignored. Keep in mind, we are strangers and we remain strangers until we've both agreed to move beyond that label.

Please be in North America and please be my age or older.

To let me know you've read this - tell me what consent framework you believe in/tend to follow: SSC, RACK, PRICK, etc...