-Yin and Yang. -Two sides to the same coin.. -Complimentary sides to the same person. -A dark side to you that feeds off the other..

-A side you need to indulge in to keep yourself functioning well..

If this appeals to you, please read on. If this confuses you, read on. If you think respect and abuse cannot exist together, this might not be for you. Infact, we might enjoy each other as much as Voldy and Harry do.

Who am I:

Am someone who identifies as a Dominant. Have been in this lifestyle for more than a decade now, mostly in real life and have very recently ventured into an online dynamic.

I enjoy a lot of kinks but have figured out that what I actually enjoy is bringing a sub out of her comfort zone. So funnily enough, my kink differs from sub to sub. After all what would feel like torture to one may feel like play to other. Generically, my kinks do include humiliation, power exchange, CNC, control. Am not into DDLG and age play.

Also, consent is important to me as are safewords. I intend to push you and your boundaries. So, I have to have an idea of where your boundaries are. And that's where I would like you to use your safewords literally, atleast initially. The confidence that comes with that knowledge(that you can look out for yourself since am not physically present to gauge) would help me not hold back. Vanilla me is a big fan of HP, Dexter, Hannibal(Mads), LOTR and other generic stuff our generation grew up on.

What do I seek:

I seek someone who can be vulnerable to me. Am good with working towards gaining that trust. Vulnerable to the extent that I can destroy you if I want and yet you trust me not to do that.

If you are someone who wants to start exploring your dark side or wants to explore it further, am sure we would enjoy it.

If you are someone who loves reading, it's a big plus. If you are good with words and grammar, that's again something that will move you ahead of the queue (in cases there's one).

Also, I would love it if this dynamic of ours helps you become a better version of myself, just not Mother Teresa (no offence to her. She's one of my role models)

My Limitations:

Am only seeking online. This would stay that way. My real life is quite hectic and this is to cater to this side of me enough that I don't have these needs in real life. In other words, this lets me focus on my real life to function well.

What do you have to do:

Really? If I haven't bored you, just drop a hi and about yourself. I enjoy reading. So let me know about you in detail if you can and what part of this excited you enough to message me.