This is a longish read :)

Hey! I'm a dom looking for a sub. Primarily I want a relationship, but a long-term fwb is okay too. I date to marry, so don't waste my time if you don't. I want us to get to know each other before we dive into kinky play.

I'm located in Atlantic County in southern NJ. I'm not interested in something strictly online and would want to see each other somewhat regularly at the very least. I cannot host and I'm getting my license soon.

Physically, I'm 5'8, 140lbs, hispanic, pale, hygienic, I have thick, dark brown hair, a disconnected goatee, wide shoulders, long arms, and not sure if my body is slim or toned. I do have some pics on my profile so there's no surprises.

Personally, I'm open-minded, patient, caring, very honest, introverted, struggle with ADHD/anxiety, and currently work the graveyard shift. I love playing video games, watching a good movie/youtube, my cats, baking sometimes, and fixating on music that fills my brain with yummy dopamine. I don't fuck with drugs other than weed sometimes. My love language is physical touch and acts of service. I want you to feel heard and loved.

In terms of bdsm, I think I'm a service/sadistic dom. Maybe I want to please and praise you. Maybe I want to hurt and degrade you. Maybe both, let's experiment? I don't have a lot of experience but I have a good sense of what I like. I don't think I'm submissive at all, but if you're a switch I'd allow you some control sometimes. My kink list on my profile should cover what I'm into. I think someone who is submissive and masochistic would be my best match. Brats be warned, I will punish you harshly.

About you, live in NJ, have similar interests/kinks, and preferrably be close in age. Any age is okay for fwb (18 obviously). I love nerds who play video games. My only big physical preference is that you aren't unhealthily overweight. You have to love affection too.

I look forward to talking with you! Tell me a little about yourself and if you send a face pic, I'll do the same. You don't have to immediately, but physical attraction is important to me.