Hi! Happy new year! I wish I had more of an introduction planned but I’m posting this a bit spontaneously. I’ve been reading other posts and trying to figure out what exactly it is that I’m looking for, so here goes nothing!

About me- 29 cis female, petite, (relatively?) attractive, BDSM-curious individual who is looking to explore this community slowly (and online at first) and see where it goes. I am by no means shy, or even inexperienced. I’ve done plenty of things that one would consider to be kinky. I’ve enjoyed being spanked, slapped, choked, gagged, restrained, and blindfolded on more than a few occasions. I also had a brief fling with a partner who had a breeding kink and that was something I was really into, he also agreed to piss on me but afterwards he said he didn’t really get off on it so we didn’t do that again (but I really liked it). I’m open to other types of kinks as well but to be honest I’m just not very experienced with anything else.

What I’m looking for- you, hopefully! But in all seriousness, I’m looking for a man, between 29-38 who is interested in slowly introducing me to bdsm through an online dom/sub relationship. If we connect and form something real I’m open to exploring things further in the future. I’m in the Midwest so if you’re nearby, even better! I should also really emphasize that I’m looking for a soft dom, someone who wants to own me and possess me and control me but also truly cares for me. Not sure if that’s even a thing honesty but figured I’d shoot my shot on here anyways.

It is extremely important to me that we take things slow (especially at first). I’m weary to even come on here but I am desperate to explore this urge inside me. I will mostly likely keep the chat on here for a bit until I feel comfortable with you. I am happy to exchange a photo (obviously haha) but I also want to be cautious and feel you out a bit initially. Please remember- I have never been in a dom/sub relationship of any sorts. While I’ve experimented in the past, this would be an entirely new experience for me. I definitely someone who will be patient with me while I get the hang of things at first.

So, if this post intrigues you in anyway and you think you might be able to help show me the ropes (maybe even in person if we hit it off) feel free to send a dm. I know this is very much a long shot but hey, can’t blame a girl for trying right? Thanks for reading this and I hope that 2025 is a great year for you :)