So a few things before we get into kink talk because I feel that dynamics go better when we know one another and we enjoy one another.

I personally tend to take kink slow for the reasons listed above. I want to know you. I don't want just a toy to fuck with. I want to know the person. And while some kinks run dark where you might want to just be a toy to fuck, you're still a person who needs to be respected even if the sex isn't respectful. There has to be that baseline you know? Not to mention trust. You can't trust me if it's only been a day you know? Same way I can't trust you. Trust is so damn important especially when it comes to the darker kinks.

When it comes to dynamics, it's hard for me to separate romance from it. So I would like my dynamic to also be my romantic partner.

I take my health seriously. As someone who used to be extremely overweight after being hit by a car when I was training for a 50 miler. I couldnt take it anymore. I've dropped over 100 pounds, and I am running multiple times a week. Fitness is important to me again. I'm not at my goal yet, but I will be soon. So I want someone who is either serious about getting into shape or already there. Because at the end of the day, I want us to be healthy, and making all the people we walk past jealous never hurts either :p.

Also someone who is down to play games or watch shows on pc. Automatically makes it so much better since chances are we are going to be starting long distance.

A few rapid fire things. I have a vasectomy, and I have aspd. If you have questions I am an open book.

Now for the actual fun talk. Kinks!

My kinks are wide spread. But more than anything I'm a pleasure dom. My kinks depend on you. I've done everything from being a heavy sadist with branding and cutting and bloody impact play, to a total soft dom with nothing but praise and ddlg. It really depends on my partner. Whatever your kinks are. I will like them. They will make me happy so don't let me having experience in the hard-core shit discourage you. If you're into it. I am too. If you're into it. Chances are I have experience with it. Kink just makes me happy it makes life feel right. Like I can be completely content sexual without ever getting undressed. Just purely knowing that I made you have the time of your life. That makes it worth it for me.

But I will say Teasing is something that will be there regardless. I love spending the day making you feral for later when we can play. Whether it's touches, throw away comments that I whisper in your ear. Anything. I want to make you feel insatiable all day. That there's nothing that you need more than cumming. That you need my touch in ways you didn't think possible.

If you're down to have the best dom you have ever had, and you can put up with my requirements then shoot me a chat with info about yourself. It will be infinitely more attractive if you hit me with actual details about you instead of a "hi!".

Preferably someone between 21-35 but if you think you're a good match outside of that shoot your shot.