I'm thinking we meet up first in a public space to catch the vibe before heading in for a night of low key fun. Nothing sexual necessarily, just a collar around your neck, hands bound while we enjoy a movie and see where things take us. Whether you're new to kink or a seasoned vet I hope to start slow. D/S is emotional and personal to me; the sexual aspect is important but tertiary.

From there who knows? Maybe we become friends who can share this weird interest with each other. Maybe we want to take things deeper, marking the relationship with the signs of power exchange.

Eventually I'd like to find a sub I can collar in a long term, romantic relationship. It would look vanilla much of the time. In public, nobody would know. Most of the time at home would be spent on mundane things, working, playing games, cuddling, but there would always be that bond under the surface which brings us closer together as we put our trust and pleasure in each others hands. Maybe you're on week two of orgasm denial and are making sure the kitchen is extra clean so you can finally receive pleasure tonight, or maybe you just slept in til 1 because you spent the night tied to the bed, made to cum until you passed out.

We can talk about specific kinks etc in chat but I suffice to say I'm fairly flexible, with a few exceptions around personal icks or morally controversial kinks. What's far more important is the particular flavor a relationship takes on when two people come together. I can't tell you exactly what I want because I don't yet know exactly what *you* want. I don't want a specific type of relationship because it is my fantasy, I want specifically the kind of relationship I can build with someone that will make them the most happy.

I hope your end goal is also long term, but I'm in no rush. I'm alright having a bit of fun in the meantime.

Details about me to help filter: White, 6'2, slim build, live in Maryland on the left branch of the Red Line. Have my own apartment so can host.

Will leave this up as long as I'm still looking so if you find this later, hi!