Hey there! I’m a 25-year-old male living in Utah, working as a software developer. I’m a bit introverted, but I enjoy the occasional adventure with the right people. When I’m not coding, you’ll find me gaming (mainly solo RPGs and roguelikes), rock climbing, reading (fiction and web novels are my go-to), or doing ceramics/pottery. I also enjoy hanging out with my family, and anime is a hobby I keep coming back to.

I’m currently getting back into shape, so I’m semi-fit and working on improving that. I’m about 5’11” with blue eyes and short brown hair. I value intelligence, wit, and meaningful connections, whether we’re chatting about life or sharing random interests.

I’m an atheist, and while I respect other perspectives, I tend to connect best with people who share similar values when it comes to relationships.

No OnlyFans chats: If your preferred method of communication is OnlyFans, please don’t bother. I respect if you have one, but that’s not the place for personal or meaningful conversation.

Time Zones Matter: I’m looking to connect with people in similar time zones, but don’t hesitate to reach out if you feel like we’d vibe despite that.

What I’m Looking For:

I’m here to meet people who share similar interests and who can be good friends or potential partners if the connection is right. If you're intelligent, witty, and into similar hobbies (gaming, reading, climbing, etc.), we’ll probably get along well.

For Friendship:

I’m looking to meet like-minded people who enjoy nerdy convos, good laughs, and shared hobbies. I’ve lost touch with a lot of my college friends, so I’m excited to find others who are into gaming or just good banter. And if you're into some of the same kinks or hobbies, we’ll probably hit it off!

For a Relationship:

I’m interested in building a relationship with someone who shares my values of trust, communication, and balance. I’m looking for a sub with a playful, bratty side who’s into clear dynamics and mutual respect. Kink is a part of the equation, but it’s not everything—what matters most to me is a genuine connection. Ideally, I’m seeking someone between 21-27 who enjoys a good mix of fun and structure and is either already active or working on getting fit.

Bonus points if you have a cute aesthetic, a sharp sense of humor, and love good conversation. Intelligence and wit definitely go a long way with me!

About me NSFW:

I am a soft and affectionate dom, but I can also be harsh and strict during play/punishment. I am a dom 95% of the time, but my switch side comes out occasionally, usually in the form of bets or task rewards that can be used on me. I enjoy making unique and creative tasks, playing kink-based bets and games, causing humiliation, and making heavily one-sided bets/gambles. My experience with BDSM is growing, and I'm always learning.

My main kinks include bondage, orgasm control, edging, CNC, predicament, risky-public, service, and pet play, as well as many others. When my rare sub side comes out, I enjoy some CBT, post-orgasm torture, bondage, predicament, and a few other kinks. You can find a full list of my kinks, along with my BDSM test results, on my profile page.

I take safety seriously and prioritize open and honest communication with my partners. I'm looking for someone who shares my passion for BDSM and is excited to explore the many facets of our dynamic together.