Happy New Years, everyone!
I'm sending this off with the hopes that someone else's plans fell through as well, and that you want to change that. Oh, and I'm totally down for this to last beyond just new years. Happy with whatever lol.
First off, logistics: I am 25M in Brooklyn near a 2/3 and a 4/5 stop near Prospect Park living alone in a 1br apartment with a sign-in or a back entrance, whichever you'd prefer. DDF, non-conservative, and above-average looks. Attraction is subjective, so I'll let you decide how above-average for yourself 🫡
Second, the nsfw sell: I am an athletic (but not ripped) 5'9" white guy with very high libido and stamina. I lowkey need sex to be at a higher tempo and force for me to get off, and as such am looking for rougher sex. I am a dominant, and lean most towards pleasure domming, but have had fun being a daddy dom, soft sadist, moderate sadistic, and a competitive switch. It's all fun, and my perspective is that I don't need control, but I prefer having it cause it takes a lot for me to get off, and hardly anyone aside from myself has been able to get me there. I also love when a sub submits to me, and I enjoy rewarding my sub accordingly. I've engaged with some people through reddit already as well, and understand how to essentially not be a massive piece of shit lmao. There's a fair bit of (completely cleaned and sanatized) gear that we can use at my place, if that's of interest to you. I really love showing people new things and introducing them in a safe environment, so the top-tier ideal situation is if I could satiate some curiosities as the new year rolls in. Limits are any fluids/bodily waste play, incest, beastiality, harsh degradation, and probably some others that aren't coming to mind-- I don't really judge tbh, so if you wanna double check, I'd encourage you to ask. We can get into the nitty gritty if we chat.
Third, the sfw sell: I'm a bartender with a very solid home setup, it is not my only source of income, I love creative pursuits, I do music, read, write a bunch, cook, keep my place clean, take pride in being a decent human being, and enjoy sharing experiences with people. From movies to music to recipes to whatever else can be shared. I also like getting to know people, and genuinely tend to take an interest in my sub beyond just what they share in the bedroom. If you happen to play games (of any kind), be into film production, or enjoy Netflix and chill that actually involves watching something, I'm very into all of that.
Finally, you! If you're interested, hit me up! If you wanna ask me questions of any kind, feel free to do so. I'm a huge advocate for being super open and honest in this community, cause trust, alignment and general good vibes are non-negotiable for me. Huge plus if you send pictures as early as you're comfortable with-- sfw is fine, and I'll do the same-- just because it's never fun to realize that the physical attraction isn't there after vibing with a person. But yeah, if you're still reading, I hope you reach out. And have a fantastic new year!
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